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 Fenrir.Niflheim
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By Fenrir.Niflheim 2025-01-08 10:34:42  
K123 said: »
Ok. Does that give you free reign to shitpost and harass and discriminate outside of that sub-section of the forum then?

Are you going to tell us how downs syndrome people should just "manage their symptoms" next?
Yes I would that is how I was taught.

This is pretty off-topic at this point if you want to continue we can take it to some other thread or dms.



To actually contribute to the thread:

My first LS had a in-person meet up, and the location happened to be a theme park near where I lived. I lied and said I lived on the other side of the state and then continue to pretend I lived in pueblo colorado for the rest of the time I was in that LS (I only knew the city because my mom went there for work)
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By Fenrir.Richybear 2025-01-08 11:09:25  
The only LS I know that did meet ups on Fenrir was PurpleHaze, but they turned that almost into an annual thing at one point.
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By K123 2025-01-08 11:16:46  
Carbuncle.Nynja said: »
I dont see your VIP, yet all you do is freely shitpost and harass people. So clearly thats not a requirement.
The hypocrisy. Also I'll probably get banned for defending against his personal attacks and ableism, because he is so special on the internet.
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By K123 2025-01-08 11:19:30  
Fenrir.Niflheim said: »
K123 said: »
Are you going to tell us how downs syndrome people should just "manage their symptoms" next?
Yes I would that is how I was taught.
ok Dr. Mengele, lucky you don't actually interact with people IRL then isn't it

Fenrir.Niflheim said: »
To actually contribute to the thread:
Would post the clapping meme if I could be bothered. I would have happily continued our previous discussion had you not got it locked by shitposting and pathetically throwing insults around there too.
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By K123 2025-01-08 11:25:30  
Cerberus.Ephexis said: »

Is this the Lili posting on this forum?
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By Carbuncle.Nynja 2025-01-08 12:07:08  
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Carbuncle.Nynja said: »
I dont see your VIP, yet all you do is freely shitpost and harass people. So clearly thats not a requirement.
The hypocrisy. Also I'll probably get banned for defending against his personal attacks and ableism, because he is so special on the internet.
I'm proud of who I am and my personality, I would never change a thing. You just admitted to hiding behind a veil of "muh disability, I cant help it, its not my fault, woe is me, *** you".
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By K123 2025-01-08 12:43:10  
Carbuncle.Nynja said: »
K123 said: »
Carbuncle.Nynja said: »
I dont see your VIP, yet all you do is freely shitpost and harass people. So clearly thats not a requirement.
The hypocrisy. Also I'll probably get banned for defending against his personal attacks and ableism, because he is so special on the internet.
I'm proud of who I am and my personality, I would never change a thing. You just admitted to hiding behind a veil of "muh disability, I cant help it, its not my fault, woe is me, *** you".
Where have I ever said "woe is me"? I'm more than happy and proud of who I am and what I've accomplished. Correcting someone about how hardwired ways ASD brains work and that you can't "CBT" it away or prevent how your brain works isn't excusing anything.
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By Asura.Eiryl 2025-01-08 12:57:39  
There is way too much sand, estrogen, and psuedo player warning going on here.

Ya'll all bout to get a vacay.
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By Fenrir.Skarwind 2025-01-08 13:08:49  
10 Pages!?!?!
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By Asura.Vyre 2025-01-08 13:43:17  
10 pages.
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By Carbuncle.Nynja 2025-01-08 14:08:34  
Over a month
Those are rookie numbers
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By Pantafernando 2025-01-08 14:12:06  
Asura.Vyre said: »
10 pages.

And barely not any of those with content we really interested in knowing
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By Carbuncle.Nynja 2025-01-08 14:40:48  
Idk that vilma post was an absolute banger, 7 star masterpiece
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By Rips 2025-01-08 15:37:16  
Go old school. Take it to ballista, boys.

Jesus, everyone is at each other's throats these days.
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By zixxer 2025-01-08 16:00:34  
Please keep the noise clear. I need to check occasionally to see if GwenStacy said her thing yet.
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By RadialArcana 2025-01-08 16:22:04  
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I'm autistic so your comment is equally as insulting to me.

Looking at your posts in this thread you need to be insulted more.
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By Kaffy 2025-01-08 16:40:53  
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Go old school. Take it to ballista, boys.

Jesus, everyone is at each other's throats these days.

At least we have some new FFXI stuff to talk about now, was nothing to keep people busy for a long time and boredom can drive anyone crazy.
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By K123 2025-01-08 17:58:14  
RadialArcana said: »
K123 said: »
I'm autistic so your comment is equally as insulting to me.

Looking at your posts in this thread you need to be insulted more.
Looking at your post history for several years, you'd benefit from learning about ASD
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By Lili 2025-01-08 20:17:59  
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Looking at your post history for several years, you'd benefit from learning about ASD

Half of the people on this website are on the spectrum somewhere, you using it as a defense is pathetic.
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By Fenrir.Zenion 2025-01-08 20:22:18  
Fenrir.Richybear said: »
The only LS I know that did meet ups on Fenrir was PurpleHaze, but they turned that almost into an annual thing at one point.

I think I remember hearing about one of the iterations of MagesStar doing a meetup once, but that was before they ruined the whole thing by letting me in.
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By Asura.Iamaman 2025-01-08 20:22:49  
Lili said: »
K123 said: »
Looking at your post history for several years, you'd benefit from learning about ASD

Half of the people on this website are on the spectrum somewhere, you using it as a defense is pathetic.

Only half?
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By RadialArcana 2025-01-08 20:43:54  
K123 said: »
RadialArcana said: »
K123 said: »
I'm autistic so your comment is equally as insulting to me.

Looking at your posts in this thread you need to be insulted more.
Looking at your post history for several years, you'd benefit from learning about ASD

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By K123 2025-01-09 01:11:38  
Lili said: »
K123 said: »
Looking at your post history for several years, you'd benefit from learning about ASD

Half of the people on this website are on the spectrum somewhere, you using it as a defense is pathetic.
When have I ever used it as a "defense" for anything? I don't see a new to "defend" myself on the internet to some other closet ASD people. If you're attacking me, and you are literally stalking and responding to my every post, then you might want to consider who has the issues here. By all means keep begging for my attention but your stalking is not flattering me.
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By Asura.Asalith 2025-01-09 04:26:30  
Cerberus.Ephexis said: »
Couple points:

- Original LS lead in the time you were there, Alphinaud, did discuss with me frequently how you would only ever show up for Bumba RP when Odyssey was brand new. Didn't partake in anything else with the LS.

Nobody was ever kicked from the LS for being idle/afk at that time. It had been a long standing thing, even going back to the Ponto era, where there was that expectation. You get out what you put in. What was observed with yourself though was you running the same events separately, at the same time. People were rightly annoyed by that, especially when you then tried to weasel into the 6 man content.


Strange, I don't recall playing with Alphinaud, I'm pretty sure he was playing FFXIV with Ponto by the time I joined the linkshell. It's a bit odd that he would be commenting on my apparent lack of attending.

I also find it very strange that there's a comment from Terico there... the guy who 6 boxed content solo and rarely attended events himself.

However, yes I will admit- I did not attend Dynamis bi-weekly. Who would want to join an event where you can be picked at random for an unstable leader to spew vitriol at you or anyone in the event. There was also the fact that when my group joined the linkshell it was on the caveat that we might not attend all events as we were still slowing shutting down our own linkshell, and this was okayed by the majority of the leaders. However, my attendance for Omen/Segs/helping get Ody clears for other members(not just Bumba) was very high but you were only fixated about Dynamis.

If no one else was kicked for being afk at the time of events, why was Lordshaxx also kicked the same time as me? From my understanding we were only kicked for being afk (bazaaring in Port Jeuno) during event times.

Let's not forget that we immediately got our pearl back as the majority of the leaders were on our side regarding this.

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If the people who came over complained about it being toxic, and had the option of running with that old group for events, why didn't they? In the time I had the breakaway LS running, I barely had any personnel turnover. I should also note, considering you claim I was the only person fixated on this, that the old group that didn't join me continued to do those runs at the same event time as my new group for over a year afterwards.

For someone believes he took the majority of players and had no turnover, you seemed to do a lot of recruiting, I don't understand the high amount of recruiting for a linkshell that had a lot of members and no turnover.
It seems your XIAH forum post has been deleted now but I can still remember the majority of posts were other users discouraging people from joining your toxic linkshell, and let's not get started on all the /yells.
Just running the events is not fixation, demanding attendance to old content and kicking people for not attending and demanding to be in control of the events at all times is fixating.

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Worth also pointing out, Celgane was never a sackholder in the new group, at any point in time. I remember the video he posted up, and from a quick search it was this one. linked here I remember him also deleting it and apologising, but your group had opted at that stage to launch a big pile on of him. That was the only thing he posted to the LS Discord publicly.

I could be wrong about him being a leader but that was my and a few other peoples memory, either way you acknowledge knowing about this video and still offered him a linkpearl. This is either because you condone this kind of content or are because your morals are so lacking that you don't see a problem with it.

That video is clearing disparaging women by derogatively comparing them to dogs, as you don't seem to have a problem with the video is telling. He only apologised because of the backlash he received and was very hesistant to delete it, he only deleted it a few days after due to all of the complaints from multiple members.

I'd also like to add that my girlfriend makes more money than I do and she still loves me and doesn't think any less of me. I know plently of other men in the exact same scenario.
Anyone who believes the rhetoric of the video is disillusioned and has an incel/red pill mindset which makes them less attractive and therefore less loveable.

Do you really think that someone who would post a video like that wouldn't post the homophobic stuff that he did? Misogyny and homophobia go together in a lot of cases. There's a pattern starting to form about his character and attepting to defend him is showing a lot about your character.

This was an obvious attempt to find likemided people and by the looks of it, he found it.

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Also, to counter your comment about them not being disruptive in any way, this one from one of the other sackholders suggests otherwise. You may not have been aware of this though, because back then we weren't running Bumbas for everyone 24/7.


As this was a post from Lion, I will give you this point. Maybe I joined when she was being less disruptive, it's a good point to note that I played with her for 2 years after the break, she was never disruptive and always offered to help other members. I would like to note that the examples given (No anchor, going DRK (she went DRK because she thought the boost to Chaos roll would help) instead of SAM in segs and No Discord) are not disruptive or at most minimally disruptive.



I was going to leave this post out but I believe I should bring it up. This screenshot was sent to me by one of the many disgruntled members in your shell

1. You stated that you barely had any turnover but the linkshell is not salvageable because you can't recruit. Can you explain this to me?
2. Blaming others seems to be a common theme for you, have you ever tried looking at yourself to solve these issues?
3. I played with a majority of your linkshell as there was a lot of cross-over between our linkshells and I don't recall any communication issues or "a refusal by people to do the basics", have you tried speaking to people like humans and not yelling into the mic.
4. This is probably one of the most toxic linkshell break messages I have seen, this alone proves the toxic culture coming from the leader
5. The game changed (Segs/Ody/Sortie) to that people had to adapt and play in smaller groups, they were not in the wrong for doing this- you should have lead them better and adapted appropriately to the new style of content.
6. Re-read all of this and remember that you are talking about A GAME, does this sound like an environment where anyone was having fun?
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By Afania 2025-01-09 07:17:19  
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Only half?

Autism is probably one of the most overused and misused term on the internet lol.

Being rude or blunt isn't necessarily autism. It can be other reason such as cluster B personality trait/disorder for example. Also from my rl experience, people with high social status can often act blunt/rude because they can afford it and they can insert social authority on others by acting this way. So there are multiple reasons behind someone being rude or blunt, not just autism.

Being addicted to mmo(or other addictive substance) isn't necessarily autism either, addiction is caused by brain dopamine/reward system, not autism. Addiction and preference on repeated patterns are 2 very different thing.

Just FYI, reading this discussion I googled autism spectrum test and scored fairly low despite I played FFXI and I can be blunt/rude and unsympathetic sometimes. Then I gave the test to someone that is way less rude/blunt than me nor play mmo and they scored the same thing I did. Being rude/blunt or having mmo addiction doesn't affect autism score at all.

It's probably correct that more than half of people would score higher than 0 on an autism spectrum test. But I highly doubt more than half of the people would score extremely high in the test though, severe autism isn't THAT common. You need an expert to diagnose autism. Just guessing based on symptoms isn't accurate at all.
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By Fenrir.Skarwind 2025-01-09 08:19:37  
Rips said: »
Go old school. Take it to ballista, boys.

Jesus, everyone is at each other's throats these days.

I wish people would put up or shut up honestly.

People need to stop arguing to come off as intellectually superior.

They should just Ballista/PVP In another game, put on the gloves IRL and prove who is superior in the ring of honor. (Preferably record it and stream it for us.)

Shits painful to watch otherwise. Prove yourself with actions, not words. Shake hands after and move on.
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By Afania 2025-01-09 09:11:59  
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They should just Ballista/PVP In another game, put on the gloves IRL and prove who is superior in the ring of honor. (Preferably record it and stream it for us.)

Shits painful to watch otherwise. Prove yourself with actions, not words. Shake hands after and move on.


Ballista sucks *** as PvP game though. Just QD for "I win" button.

I'd love to challenge people in a virtua fighter 2 match instead.
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By Valefor.Yandaime 2025-01-09 09:12:45  
Fenrir.Skarwind said: »
Rips said: »
Go old school. Take it to ballista, boys.

Jesus, everyone is at each other's throats these days.

I wish people would put up or shut up honestly.

People need to stop arguing to come off as intellectually superior.

They should just Ballista/PVP In another game, put on the gloves IRL and prove who is superior in the ring of honor. (Preferably record it and stream it for us.)

Shits painful to watch otherwise. Prove yourself with actions, not words. Shake hands after and move on.

Wait, like that one guy who made that “Amazing Dancer looking for Sortie Perma”, but is not here to impress anyone and also will fist fight you if you disagree with him?

I’d be down to watch that play out lol
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By Fenrir.Skarwind 2025-01-09 09:20:09  
Valefor.Yandaime said: »
Fenrir.Skarwind said: »
Rips said: »
Go old school. Take it to ballista, boys.

Jesus, everyone is at each other's throats these days.

I wish people would put up or shut up honestly.

People need to stop arguing to come off as intellectually superior.

They should just Ballista/PVP In another game, put on the gloves IRL and prove who is superior in the ring of honor. (Preferably record it and stream it for us.)

Shits painful to watch otherwise. Prove yourself with actions, not words. Shake hands after and move on.

Wait, like that one guy who made that “Amazing Dancer looking for Sortie Perma”, but is not here to impress anyone and also will fist fight you if you disagree with him?

I’d be down to watch that play out lol

We should let him cook.
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By Fenrir.Skarwind 2025-01-09 09:22:20  
Afania said: »
Fenrir.Skarwind said: »
They should just Ballista/PVP In another game, put on the gloves IRL and prove who is superior in the ring of honor. (Preferably record it and stream it for us.)

Shits painful to watch otherwise. Prove yourself with actions, not words. Shake hands after and move on.


Ballista sucks *** as PvP game though. Just QD for "I win" button.

I'd love to challenge people in a virtua fighter 2 match instead.


I mean Ballista is just one option. You could have a third party pick the medium to make things fair.

We could have our own "XI Fight Club"
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