Going to chip in a little from the RDM perspective. All of the NMs were fairy easy to keep enfeebled, never taking more than two tries to land a spell and even that was rare.
During the fight I kept Iroha silenced to keep her from bursting any spells, and when it was getting close to the time the adds would be waking up I would silence Arciela, Prishe, and Nashmeira as well as paralyzing Lion and one or two of the others to take the edge off the burst that tends to happen. I highly reccommend doing so as Aricela can and will burst off chains, sometimes with ja spells that can really ruin the DDs. Since most of my damage was coming from en-spells, I didn't worry about burning TP when I needed to cast.
As a side note, if things are really desperate they are bindable, but I really wouldn't recommend trying to use it as an actual strategy.