Help Please With Ls Rules....

Hello everyone, I would like some input on the rules we have posted for our linkshell. This is my first post here so please bear with me. We are a Social Ls, with families/kids/couples etc.....
The rules we have are as follow:
Linkshell Members

Respect everyone in the linkshell and all problems that occur should be discussed outside of the shell with an authoritve figure to resolve the matter. Do not attempt to disrupt the ls by trying to resolve the issue in front of the entire ls. Any attempt to do so can and will be deal with immediately by any Leader or Officer.
All members are subject to participate in at least one linkshell event once a month(Attendance will be taken). Please be courteous and contact the leader or officers asap if you cannot make it to an event after signing up for one.
All members of the shell are required to sign up for the website to participate in events.
Absolutely no MPK, involvement in RMT or third-party software.

Third-party software that doesn't effect the game play of others is acceptable (Windower, parsers).
Follow instructions given by the leader/sackholders.
Do some research before requesting help.

Some things you may find that you are able to do easily solo.
Knowing what you need to do will make it easier for the person helping you.

Sackholders

All of the above rules still apply.
Do not break any members pearl without first consulting it with the leader.

There may be a case where a member is exhibiting disruptive behaviour over the linkshell, or to another member. Under these circumstances, the members pearl may be temporarily broken.
Be sure to notify the member of the reasons their pearl is being broken, and inform the leader of these reasons asap.
You are representing our linkshell, so give it a good name.
You are to act as a role model for other members, if you are breaking rules they will too.

The problem I seemed to be having lately is, there are a few in the group who don't think rules are necessary and the ls should be left alone as is. I have had to banned members, because of very crude graphic sexual comments, (I mean "Hustler" Magazine crude), Banned members for not listening and continually breaking ls rules, and even banned one male member for excessive stalking. ; ;

Any helpful comments would be welcome to help modify our rules. Sorry about the long post but I am at my wits end trying to make everyone happy. I've been called everything from Prude, to Queen of the S***. Believe me we aren't prudes, but we do watch the language during the afternoons when the kids are on...This becoming more frequent lately, but I do not want to have to break the linkshell. ; ; So any help would be appreciated. Thank you.