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 Fenrir.Niniann
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 22:56:36  
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cute girls in my classes this semester though, going to try to pick one of them up >:

Ask them if they want to get food with you or something and see where it goes from there.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 22:57:49  
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
cute girls in my classes this semester though, going to try to pick one of them up >:

Ask them if they want to get food with you or something and see where it goes from there.

was going to go with "Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?" and then proceed to snuff them and put them into the back of a van

that works too though i guess
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By Cerberus.Eugene 2012-01-30 22:58:06  
ninian's a smart cookie
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 22:59:48  
was going to try talking to random people around campus but seeing as its cold as balls atm im going to wait until spring
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:01:47  
lolololol

But yeah, I have lunch with people from class all the time. I mean of course nothing has ever happened (I'm dating Nightfyre etc), but I've never been like 'NO *** YOU WE CAN'T EAT TOGETHER RAWR'... >___>;
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:03:26  
all guys highschool etc. still nervous about this ***in college because of it
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:06:23  
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
all guys highschool etc. still nervous about this ***in college because of it

Oh, lol. I could see that being an issue.... hrrrm.

If you have a group project, the best way would be to approach one of your teammates and talk to them. Or talk to the girl who draws cute pictures and be like, 'hey nice drawings!'

It's a little strange to just go up to someone out of nowhere, so find something that you can talk about. Like perhaps complimenting her hair/t-shirt/drawings/novel she's carrying/etc.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:07:22  
Fenrir.Niniann said: »
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
all guys highschool etc. still nervous about this ***in college because of it

Oh, lol. I could see that being an issue.... hrrrm.

If you have a group project, the best way would be to approach one of your teammates and talk to them. Or talk to the girl who draws cute pictures and be like, 'hey nice drawings!'

It's a little strange to just go up to someone out of nowhere, so find something that you can talk about. Like perhaps complimenting her hair/t-shirt/drawings/novel she's carrying/etc.

you mean twilight

don't you
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:07:51  
and yeah i'll have to try stuff like that

seriously sick and tired of this no girlfriend ***
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:10:37  
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
you mean twilight

don't you

I would consider avoiding a girl who carries around a Twilight book. D:

Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
and yeah i'll have to try stuff like that

seriously sick and tired of this no girlfriend ***

I don't think they'll bite your head off if you're just being friendly, so you definitely should.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:11:47  
Fenrir.Niniann said: »
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
you mean twilight

don't you

I would consider avoiding a girl who carries around a Twilight book. D:

Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
and yeah i'll have to try stuff like that

seriously sick and tired of this no girlfriend ***

I don't think they'll bite your head off if you're just being friendly, so you definitely should.

some people don't seem to like being bothered at all though >:
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:12:40  
also, Ninian maybe you can explain this to me

but why do girls always expect doors to be held open from them even if its from like 20 feet away

i've gotten so many dirty looks in the past few days because of that
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:14:59  
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some people don't seem to like being bothered at all though >:

This is true, but if you don't try you'll never succeed.

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also, Ninian maybe you can explain this to me

but why do girls always expect doors to be held open from them even if its from like 20 feet away

i've gotten so many dirty looks in the past few days because of that



I live by this rule, but I'd never shoot anyone a dirty look unless they actually slammed the door in my face (has happened a few times).

Anyway it's silly to me. A lot of girls just feel entitled to everything. @@;
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:15:27  
well *** those girls D;
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:16:14  
i might try to stay in my major though (surprisingly there are quite a lot of CS majors who are girls)

or something related to math or science
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:21:31  
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
i might try to stay in my major though (surprisingly there are quite a lot of CS majors who are girls)

or something related to math or science

Girls usually do arts/humanities. I only know a handful of girls who are in the math/sciences. If there's some in CS that's not bad. I mean, obviously don't pick your major to pick up chicks... that's a bad idea.

I would suggest getting into clubs. Anime club etc. I know Nightfyre was in the ballroom dance club. I don't do clubs though, people are scary.

(Did I mention I have no friends?)
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:22:36  
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
i might try to stay in my major though (surprisingly there are quite a lot of CS majors who are girls)

or something related to math or science

Girls usually do arts/humanities. I only know a handful of girls who are in the math/sciences. If there's some in CS that's not bad. I mean, obviously don't pick your major to pick up chicks... that's a bad idea.

I would suggest getting into clubs. Anime club etc. I know Nightfyre was in the ballroom dance club. I don't do clubs though, people are scary.

(Did I mention I have no friends?)

Don't worry all my friends are CS majors (Not even kidding)

and not in any clubs because i'd rather... do other stuff in my free time

but might have to join them some day D:
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:24:31  
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Don't worry all my friends are CS majors (Not even kidding)

and not in any clubs because i'd rather... do other stuff in my free time

but might have to join them some day D:


Ahaha, it's okay all my friends are digital media majors assuming they haven't graduated (most have).

Clubs are good because it forces you to mingle outside of your comfort zone, exposing you to more people. As I've said, people scare the ***out of me so I'll pass, but I'm content with my situation.

I met my first bf in college at a free food event, he was an RA and was passing out free food and we talked while I stuffed my face. Could look into stuff like that too.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:25:31  
That seems interesting :o

I've never thought about using something like that

but uh yeah, i like not people
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:28:29  
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
That seems interesting :o

I've never thought about using something like that

but uh yeah, i like not people

It's alright. D:

^^ Just do something that gets you involved with people. Once you make a friend with a girl or two you don't have to keep up going to these events until you're sure it's not going to work out, rinse repeat etc.

Also keep in mind--even if the girl doesn't like you, they might have friends.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:30:19  
ah, good point there

maybe if there was some sort of sushi club thing or something

that would be nice >:
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By Fenrir.Nightfyre 2012-01-30 23:31:26  
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What the hell can I do to alleviate this situation?
Run. She is very bad news and you've allowed her to manipulate and emasculate you. Get away from her ASAP and do not look back.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:32:08  
find one that will break your junk

that one will be a keeper

just ask night >:
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:35:36  
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
ah, good point there

maybe if there was some sort of sushi club thing or something

that would be nice >:

There might be a sushi club. You should check facebook, I think facebook has most clubs on there.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:36:11  
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
ah, good point there

maybe if there was some sort of sushi club thing or something

that would be nice >:

There might be a sushi club. You should check facebook, I think facebook has most clubs on there.

it does?

didn't know that. I'll have to check
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2012-01-30 23:39:28  
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it does?

didn't know that. I'll have to check

I don't really use Facebook, but you should be able to type in your university and search groups and it should show up. Maybe someone else who's more familiar with the website could help you out there. @@;
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:40:29  
hopefully i'll come out on top after working to get a girlfriend D;
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By Fenrir.Nightfyre 2012-01-30 23:43:24  
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
you mean twilight

don't you
What Nini said, but this is good. Humor = friendly and approachable as long as you don't sound like you're reading one-liners off a card.

Fenrir.Niniann said: »
A lot of girls just feel entitled to everything. @@;
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
well *** those girls D;
Correct answer!

Carbuncle.Lolserj said: »
Don't worry all my friends are CS majors (Not even kidding)

and not in any clubs because i'd rather... do other stuff in my free time

but might have to join them some day D:
It doesn't have to be a club, just anything that gets you out and around people. I played in student orchestras, I danced, I went to concerts, I hung out in the quad if there was a group offering free food on Sunday nights. Anything works as long as you're interested and there's likeminded women around.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:58:13  
Trying to say I'm funny? D:
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2012-01-30 23:59:27  
howd you meet nini btw
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