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OMG that was amazing XD
Scrumpet likes your taste in videos! D:
I've had this violin cover stuck in my head! D:
This, Blow ~ Ke-Dollar Sign-Ha, and Friday ~ Rebecca Black have overwhelmed my thinking processes, HALP! :c
Thanks for the list, I found a place to watch step up 3 online so I totally got side tracked. I think I will rent it tmr so I can watch it on the big tv.
Texas is full of hot guys scrumpy, just most of em are look but don't touch.
Texas is full of hot guys scrumpy, just most of em are look but don't touch.
Not many are able to withhold an intellectual conversation with me. :c
I honestly do not care about the looks, the fame, the horizontal dancing, nor the fortune; they're only assets.
I want someone, who makes me happy, to talk to and grow old with.
Obviously, to the one living in the age of romance, there is no such thing in our "modern" world.
Not many are able to withhold an intellectual conversation with me. :c
I honestly do not care about the looks, the fame, the horizontal dancing, nor the fortune; they're only assets.
I want someone, who makes me happy, to talk to and grow old with.
Pfft. Blonde and smokin' for me, or no deal! No.. he can just be blonde. The happiness part is true, but if someone is stupid and makes me happy.. then I don't really care about their intelligence level.
Yeah.. as conceited as it sounds, someone should match me on some level before I get with them.
It takes a lot of work to be pretty. Kind of. >.>
Anyone here a fashion watcher/type person? Cares about fashion..
Not many are able to withhold an intellectual conversation with me. :c
I honestly do not care about the looks, the fame, the horizontal dancing, nor the fortune; they're only assets.
I want someone, who makes me happy, to talk to and grow old with.
Pfft. Blonde and smokin' for me, or no deal! No.. he can just be blonde. The happiness part is true, but if someone is stupid and makes me happy.. then I don't really care about their intelligence level.
Yeah.. as conceited as it sounds, someone should match me on some level before I get with them.
It takes a lot of work to be pretty. Kind of. >.>
Anyone here a fashion watcher/type person? Cares about fashion..
Well "stupid" is defined differently by each person.
I am not saying they have to be skilled in the sciences or even medicine but, they should be good at SOMETHING.
For example, languages.
A linguist deserves the same respect as an organic chemist. (This is arguable but, they both devoted their live to a cause and/or desire.)
I tend to be stay away from those who do not define goals, or those who do define goals but are inept in their field. @_@;
I guess I am just a very goal oriented person and I admire that in others? lawlz
/foreveralone! D:
replace the title with "Ted's romantic experiences"
The red change to "I like them but they are straight or a lesbian"
Change the green to "They like me but are a total creep"
And you get my romantic life in a nutshell... I'm not all that picky about apperence either. Mainly just want someone i can spend my life with and be happy. Although i will admit a weakness for sandy blonds and a turn off from bleach blonds XD
I was in Houston for lunch today them be my stomping grounds back in the day, and will be again soon as my summer job starts and I have money again.
I have dated hot and stupid and they get annoying, really freaking fast. But when you are working at a bar and its the summer and all you really have time for is sex, then well intellectual conversation doesn't matter all that much(except when you want it and have to go else where to get it). All though it its kinda fun to say after I dumped him, he went and did porn.
I'm a dark blond though during the summer my hair will naturally go back to full out blondness, and find my self more attracted relationship wise to dark hair and eyes(light green eyes are be so damn sexy), I think it has to do with I like being the tall, athletic, blond hair, blue eyed boy. I'm not a Nazi >.>
awww irohuro thinks I'm ugly ; ; I was in Houston for lunch today them be my stomping grounds back in the day, and will be again soon as my summer job starts and I have money again. I have dated hot and stupid and they get annoying, really freaking fast. But when you are working at a bar and its the summer and all you really have time for is sex, then well intellectual conversation doesn't matter all that much(except when you want it and have to go else where to get it). All though it its kinda fun to say after I dumped him, he went and did porn. I'm a dark blond though during the summer my hair will naturally go back to full out blondness, and find my self more attracted relationship wise to dark hair and eyes(light green eyes are be so damn sexy), I think it has to do with I like being the tall, athletic, blond hair, blue eyed boy. I'm not a Nazi >.>
I wouldn't mind if some was was stuipid intellegence wise as long as it's not the dur dur sex dur kind of stuipid. Everyone has redeeming features to find... I like green eyes too :P
I've always been curious, as growing up, it was always tried to be forced down my throat that attraction to the same sex was a choice. Of course, I don't believe it, but out of risk of sounding ignorant, when or how did you find yourself attracted to the same sex? Is it just naturally inherent, like breathing air? I don't get how it works, I mean, I tried experimenting with the same sex, and didn't really feel anything outside of normal stimuli of intercourse. What fuels your desire? I just don't want to sound like another ignorant moron spouting like a bible basher 'IT'S A CHOICE, THEIR LIFESTYLE IS WRONG." I want to be able to let my kid make his own choice now that he's questioning his own expressions of sexuality, and the difference between homo/heteroseuality. I really want to explain it in a fine line that there really is no difference, but how do I go about doing this without instilling the wrong/ignorant ideals? I don't want to make him a bigot, and treat other people wrongly just because he doesn't have the same sexual attraction... regardless, I'm jut a confused straight man trying to raise his child with his eyes open rather than how my parents did when I was growing up, sorry if it came off as rambling...
TL:DR How do I explain to my kid there is no difference between hetero/homosexuality, while retaining our values in our beliefs to not sound like a bigot or hypocrite?
That the concepts of love and family aren't tied to gender.
That if I like red but not green, and you like green but not red, it's just a matter of taste which doesn't make a difference when interacting with a person.
Simply, that whatever people do, as long as they're not hurting anyone/anything, they're always free to do it. And so he is.
Anyway I've found myself liking girls since..always I think. First crushes I had in middle school were for girls, I just didn't see anything when looking at a guy. Of course it's not like this for everyone, depending on the culture you were raised in, finding yourself gay may cause you a lot of conflict deepd inside you, cause you may think you're wrong, or that people will judge you, etc. It's not easy to be gay, it's a lie saying otherwise. There are many things to struggle with, but if your family is openminded, understands, don't show signs of 'I feel let down', it makes things much easier.
Simply, that whatever people do, as long as they're not hurting anyone/anything, they're always free to do it. And so he is.
The gist of the matter. That's how I thought in school as I got older, sex is sex, doesnt matter with what, as long as it feels good to me. I just didn't want him going around popping off inaccurate things, and feeling like I let him down in that department.
I've always been curious, as growing up, it was always tried to be forced down my throat that attraction to the same sex was a choice. Of course, I don't believe it, but out of risk of sounding ignorant, when or how did you find yourself attracted to the same sex? Is it just naturally inherent, like breathing air? I don't get how it works, I mean, I tried experimenting with the same sex, and didn't really feel anything outside of normal stimuli of intercourse. What fuels your desire? I just don't want to sound like another ignorant moron spouting like a bible basher 'IT'S A CHOICE, THEIR LIFESTYLE IS WRONG." I want to be able to let my kid make his own choice now that he's questioning his own expressions of sexuality, and the difference between homo/heteroseuality. I really want to explain it in a fine line that there really is no difference, but how do I go about doing this without instilling the wrong/ignorant ideals? I don't want to make him a bigot, and treat other people wrongly just because he doesn't have the same sexual attraction... regardless, I'm jut a confused straight man trying to raise his child with his eyes open rather than how my parents did when I was growing up, sorry if it came off as rambling... TL:DR How do I explain to my kid there is no difference between hetero/homosexuality, while retaining our values in our beliefs to not sound like a bigot or hypocrite?
It may be different from person to person but for me it kinda just happened... I've always liked women but part way though high school I started noticing men as well. It really is not a choice, when i started noticing men i tryed to deny it to meself because i cought the tail end of the whole "Same sex is a bad!" thing. Then i met some friends who were gay/bi and that really helped with it. For your son id say the best way to help him be accepting of it might be to have him get to know someone who is homo with out them knowing for a while. Most people who have problems with it are because they have been feed the steryotypes and think "zomg they are gay so they must be trying to get in my pants" and what not which is what makes them uncomfortable. I can't remember where i saw this but apperently the rate of homosexuality is 1 in 10 but most of them will never be open about it and still persue a hetro relationship due to religious/peer pressure. Honestly just educating him about it rather then him just seeing media steriotypes could make a big difference... not all gay men wear open shirts pink scarves and talk with a girly voice and lisp, and not all lesbians have short hair and muscular enough to kick most mens ***... As a last resort can also tell him that what someone does with there genitals and who they do it with are none of his busness as long as both people are willing and one of them isn't him.
On a side note i dont think anyone here minds rambling... I know if I did id be a hypocrite after the above XD
Thanks for the welcome Ina. Also, I've tried to follow the thread but the topic changes... no wait scratch that, it jumps from on thing to another and then back again that its so hard to keep up with any replied whatsoever! So... I'm just going to stick to lurking I think :X
for me it started in jr. high actually, i had moved to a new school district in 1st grade, but my mom kept me transfered into my old school until i moved up. i wasnt really liked there so i didnt give relationships much thought.
anyways, when i got into jr high there was this one guy in my class, and like, as soon as i laid eyes on him i just knew i had a crush on him. that was a time of much confusion for me, i tried to convince myself that it was just a phase and it'd go away, and at school i dated a few girls to keep up appearances. my last year of jr. high this one girl stalked me, and she was my last gf (it lasted half of the 30min break).
in HS, i got tired of keeping up appearances so i stopped dating, i still kept up the front that i was straight though. that guy was still in school with me, and we always had at least 1 class a semester together (except freshman year) he was unquestionably straight though, and i was actually in a love triangle with him junior year >.> (his girlfriend liked to flirt with me, and i was mainly friends with her to get close to him, he liked her cause she was hot and a little slutty.)
early high school i was still in heavy denial, but later on in HS i began to accept it slowly, and college/this thread was when i really started accepting myself. im still on the road to being comfortable with it though :<
met a guy in HS and he was what made me realize i was gay-> was in denial until late in HS-middle of college->not in denial to myself, but still working on being comfortable.
Just curious to see how many of us actually play FFXI. **Now, let's try to keep this clean, please don't respond if you have nothing nice to say.** :] Don't be shy, speak up! :D
EDIT: You don't have to be gay to post in here, if you want to be apart of our conversations.. feel free to join in! Don't be shy, we don't bite.. well some of us do! :] Anyyyyyways~! This thread has become a home to many from the LGBT community & even some from the straight community who are open minded and enjoy chit-chatting with us, :] so let's keep it drama free, we deserve a place where we can be ourselves without being made fun of/harassed.