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FFXI LGBT Community, who are you?
I"m hungry.... don't tempt me with Candies ><
time for classhole. booooooooo
I'm cold, shay, will you cuddle me for warmth? Its -4 C out here which is like -100000000 farenheit. /shiver! Also, hope everyone Has a good weekend, I can't decide if ima be giddy or emo for it yet...
Sylph.Sindri said: I'm cold, shay, will you cuddle me for warmth? Its -4 C out here which is like -100000000 farenheit. /shiver! Also, hope everyone Has a good weekend, I can't decide if ima be giddy or emo for it yet... i vote for giddy. emo is so... 2003. :x
Nini fellas, have fun! See you all tomorrow =)
Oh yeah, we know shatks has been having trouble with weather conditioned mobs so we decided to surprise her! Its now a noob spawn! Whenever a noob walks by it spawns claimed to them! Shh don't tell shayka, its a surprise! - SE
Also, feed yourself to jormy, vrtra is such a necropheliac. Sylph.Sindri said: Oh yeah, we know shatks has been having trouble with weather conditioned mobs so we decided to surprise her! Its now a noob spawn! Whenever a noob walks by it spawns claimed to them! Shh don't tell shayka, its a surprise! - SE Also, feed yourself to jormy, vrtra is such a necropheliac. Asura.Shayka said: Sylph.Sindri said: Oh yeah, we know shatks has been having trouble with weather conditioned mobs so we decided to surprise her! Its now a noob spawn! Whenever a noob walks by it spawns claimed to them! Shh don't tell shayka, its a surprise! - SE Also, feed yourself to jormy, vrtra is such a necropheliac. Just be like... Oh did he drop a mirror and you realised you were wearing Scorp? GG *** Bismarck.Denna said: Phoenix.Sergee said: Bismarck.Denna said: unbelievably gorgeous outside. i got a mini tan just from being outside for 20 mins. can't wait to start going to the beach! As I was walking to class one day, a new female student for massage therapy, who I'm now good friends with, was like: "Hi Sergio!" Me: "o_o?.. do I know you?" Her: "Everyone knows who you are." :P! I was like.. WTF? lolol.. I was openly gay [not too feminine/masculine, I think I'm pretty balanced :D!], wore my pride necklace and stuffs, and I won most original for a Halloween contest. :]! It was a fun 11, almost 12 month experience~! Graduated with perfect attendance & a 3.8 GPA, lost my 4.0 in Anatomy, I slacked off a bit.. :x should leave with a 3.9 some staff is GREAT, some is assey, i have a nice little crew of friends from school, but overall the school sux hardcore. so many problems/issues/drama/instructor turnover rate... the list goes on. i wouldn't recommend this school to my WORST ENEMY. sometimes i felt the school was working AGAINST us. don't even get me started on how the student clinic was run. they seriously are all about the money and have no screening process whatsoever. if you have money for the application fee, they will approve you into the school. and trust me, some people at my school should NOT be going into this field. but i took it for all it was worth. and i'm excited. Some of my classmates had issues with a new batch of massage students, [my class being the seniors], they were all very young, some fresh out of highschool & immature, >.>;; the youngest in my class was ugh.. 20 I think, "out of like 11 of us, small class ftw~"].. but the staff stepped in and had both classes sit down together to settle the problems. I had nothing to do with any of it lol.. so it was somewhat entertaining. :P I'm usually friends with people my age or older, my best friend from my class is a 33 year old mother of 2 kids lol, /hug I love you Michelle! :P But other than that, things were peachy. :]! I wake up to see mesmerizing dancing and a bunch of colors on my screen...
And wow, first time I've slept for 12 hours. Happy 1st, hope you're all enjoying it. Ramuh.Rustytiger
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Hey guys and gals.
Good lord looks like I fell way behind. But I have been busy the last day and a half. I did read up on your recent post, mostly pertaining to your coming out stories. I do want to give you all advice on this; have patience. Not just you but mainly your family and friends whom your coming out to, especially your family. No matter the outcome the fact is your folks still love you and will realize the basic fact that you are their son/daughter and you love them as well. They may not see it now or even maybe for a very long time but with patience, understanding and some optimism they will come around. They have to if they love you very much everyone. Also the majority of you are close to or are adults yourselves. Your at the point or close to making your own decisions in life. Never have any regrets in this matter. It is ok also if you don't feel the need to tell everybody. Not everyone needs to know if you don't wish it and in some cases in this day and age its ok to keep it quiet such as the workplace, if you wish it. It used to annoy the hell out of me when I was a part of a gay support group and some of the members were forcing me to tell every single person, weather its a family member or a total stranger. Do it at your own pace and when you feel its time. That is ok. As for my coming out story well its a long one, kinda. I dated girls back in HS, mostly at the special school I went to before I was transferred to another school. It was mostly a couple (not at a time mind you!), nothing special. I never really gave much attention to my orientation at the time since I was too much of a geek to really care. But then at round 17-18ish I reached that "sexual age" as I call it when I developed the hots for one of the soccer guys who was in fact one of my classmates in another class AND we worked at the same job on weekends. One time he asked me to come to his apartment because he needed help with some electrical equipment, mainly his stereo system. I got there a tad bit early it seems because when he answered the door he was only wearing a towel. I'm like oookay? Nothing happened mind you but it made me wonder about him since my "gaydar" was in its infancy and last time I checked no straight man goes and answers the door with wearing only a towel around them, teenager or not. But I had these "feelings" for him for a while but kept it all to myself until I hit 21 and started dating guys, meeting all walks of life (gays, lesbians, transsexuals, bears, etc). I was a closet case when I first started. I only had myself to figure out my orientation and knowing when I could come out to my family and more importantly, be happy about myself; it takes time but if you endure and persevere you'll be fine. I too was scared out of my mind so rather than try to pull my hairs out trying to come up with the courage to tell them since many of my relatives have mixed feelings about homosexuality, I simply waited 'till they came to me or tactfully try to hint things out to them. I told a few of my aunts, all of which were very cool with it and I was going to eventually tell my mother but she turned the whole thing into a conclusion of a scooby doo mystery. She knew the whole time, giving me the whole fact as to how she knew (if i had said if it weren't for those meddling kids i don't think that would've sounded right given the subject matter lmao). Around this time I told all of my friends and my relatives. My friends are very supportive of me and Foulei, as well as some of my relatives. Other relatives however are a little indifferent but they're not on good standing with the family as it is so meh :-P One hell of a life story but its just a short to-the-point version of it. I'm now 35 so I figured its time I at least tell some folks who have just come out or are coming out, given my experiences. I hope I have been of some help to you all. Ramuh.Rustytiger said: Hey guys and gals. Good lord looks like I fell way behind. But I have been busy the last day and a half. I did read up on your recent post, mostly pertaining to your coming out stories. I do want to give you all advice on this; have patience. Not just you but mainly your family and friends whom your coming out to, especially your family. No matter the outcome the fact is your folks still love you and will realize the basic fact that you are their son/daughter and you love them as well. They may not see it now or even maybe for a very long time but with patience, understanding and some optimism they will come around. They have to if they love you very much everyone. Also the majority of you are close to or are adults yourselves. Your at the point or close to making your own decisions in life. Never have any regrets in this matter. It is ok also if you don't feel the need to tell everybody. Not everyone needs to know if you don't wish it and in some cases in this day and age its ok to keep it quiet such as the workplace, if you wish it. It used to annoy the hell out of me when I was a part of a gay support group and some of the members were forcing me to tell every single person, weather its a family member or a total stranger. Do it at your own pace and when you feel its time. That is ok. As for my coming out story well its a long one, kinda. I dated girls back in HS, mostly at the special school I went to before I was transferred to another school. It was mostly a couple (not at a time mind you!), nothing special. I never really gave much attention to my orientation at the time since I was too much of a geek to really care. But then at round 17-18ish I reached that "sexual age" as I call it when I developed the hots for one of the soccer guys who was in fact one of my classmates in another class AND we worked at the same job on weekends. One time he asked me to come to his apartment because he needed help with some electrical equipment, mainly his stereo system. I got there a tad bit early it seems because when he answered the door he was only wearing a towel. I'm like oookay? Nothing happened mind you but it made me wonder about him since my "gaydar" was in its infancy and last time I checked no straight man goes and answers the door with wearing only a towel around them, teenager or not. But I had these "feelings" for him for a while but kept it all to myself until I hit 21 and started dating guys, meeting all walks of life (gays, lesbians, transsexuals, bears, etc). I was a closet case when I first started. I only had myself to figure out my orientation and knowing when I could come out to my family and more importantly, be happy about myself; it takes time but if you endure and persevere you'll be fine. I too was scared out of my mind so rather than try to pull my hairs out trying to come up with the courage to tell them since many of my relatives have mixed feelings about homosexuality, I simply waited 'till they came to me or tactfully try to hint things out to them. I told a few of my aunts, all of which were very cool with it and I was going to eventually tell my mother but she turned the whole thing into a conclusion of a scooby doo mystery. She knew the whole time, giving me the whole fact as to how she knew (if i had said if it weren't for those meddling kids i don't think that would've sounded right given the subject matter lmao). Around this time I told all of my friends and my relatives. My friends are very supportive of me and Foulei, as well as some of my relatives. Other relatives however are a little indifferent but they're not on good standing with the family as it is so meh :-P One hell of a life story but its just a short to-the-point version of it. I'm now 35 so I figured its time I at least tell some folks who have just come out or are coming out, given my experiences. I hope I have been of some help to you all. very sound advice there, tiger ;) patience is key. Sylph.Celestialhell
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BOO guess who ;p
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^^ lol im purple now woot
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wait ... wtf x.x lol
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lol ok i fail at life x.x that evanthegai is stealing my identity sumone please help
Sylph.Celestialhell said: lol ok i fail at life x.x that evanthegai is stealing my identity sumone please help hacked! Sylph.Celestialhell
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lol ;p
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I hope the multicoloring still continues after april fools day.
My little contribution to the multicoloring of this thread as well as the end of a wonderful comic book miniseries which was awesome as hell :-P http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_5VgL6ZXwkaw/SxWMA-aINyI/AAAAAAAAQyg/dMzELgPQ3Z8/s1600/Blackest%20Night%205-6.jpg Sylph.Celestialhell
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Asura.Citag said: What are you up to? um laying here on skype bored x.x have to be at work tomorrow so blah Sylph.Celestialhell
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yay im watching Daria ... amazing i must say
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Hey everyone! I'm new around here. This forum caught my interest ^^ Nice to meet you all.
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