Random Politics & Religion #09

IDK. I learned that people exchange vows with gardening tools. That's mildly interesting, I suppose.

Some day hoes will have the right to married get on it Obama !

I wasn't planning on it.

The point is that as any man should really think about the position they're putting themselves into. If things go south due to you not living up to your obligations you're *** and she's not. If things go south because she doesn't live up to her obligations, you're *** and she's not. Exceptions do exist but they're pretty rare.

Can we change the title of the thread to "Random forever alones v happily married #09"?

This is what happens when there is no political news of note. Trump says dumb ***Hillary responds etc.

Hold up!


The bolded: How old are these kids.

The underlined: Let me guess. The oldest is in the prime time of that "magical" time when girls blossom into women and all that jazz? Yeah! That rare to medium-rare rib-eye is God damn satisfying! BLOODY!!!

There's more to it than "***".

https://markturrell.wordpress.com/2012/03/18/sex-and-the-brain-how-neuroscience-may-soon-change-all-our-relationships-6/

There was also a study, (can't find it) about the relationship between a female's vagina and her partner's penis. Sexual intercourse renewed neuron pathways in the female's brain. The pathways eroded over time and went dormant after a period of 3 months without sexual intercourse with her partner. The same was not observed for men.
I can't remember how I stumbled upon it but I remember it was a Jewish professor who did the study over 3 decades and more than 200 couples.

Happy hunting.

There are some men that were just raised right, with a strong father figure in their lives that get "it" when it comes to women. Then there are others that think being like a woman is the best way to get a woman. They complain about being friend zoned.

Just man up and not give a f_ck. You will retain women. and if you don't, don't give a f_ck. Move on to the next one, until you get one that isn't crazy.

You don't need to learn woman double-speak, just be aware that it exists.

It all really depends these days... The only outright advantage they usually have is with children... As for assets it really depends on who makes what and what they've acquired during the time being married...

This has come to be for the most part because it used to be that one parent stayed home and the other worked... If you give up a career under an agreement with your spouse to take care of the house/children/etc then if it ends you're still entitled to be taken cAre of for a bit at least otherwise that person man or woman agrees to do this and is then screwed over...

Pat of the reason people are so angry at this point anyways is because their relationship has already failed and tempers flare... Why do I wanna give this person anything at all they suck!

It's not only men that need to be wary of getting into marriages as everyone should really think about it but it doesn't always end up where only the man gets screwed and some divorces are even amicable...

I'd just make my own dinner at that point lol... Idk how someone can force another adult to become a vegetarian...

Forcing a vegan lifestyle on children can have serious health repercussions. If you know a child who is forced to eat vegan only by their parents, call a doctor and maybe social services.

FFXIAH relationship advice:

Men still typically work more during their lives and therefore still retain that breadwinner status the vast majority of the time. Alimony and child support are still set in this default position of pay for your ex wife to have a new life even though she wanted to leave.

In order for a guy to not be screwed by marriage he must ensure his wife is happy. There is no comparable ultimatum for the female side of the equation. If her husband isn't happy and she doesn't care, guess what bud, you'd better just deal with it otherwise she'll take the kids and you'll pay for them for the next 10+ years. I understand that not all divorces end in disaster, but that's not the point, the point is that men are at the mercy of the women they marry.

It used to be that life wasn't that easy for a wife or a husband who wanted to divorce, marriage laws used to provide some consequences for wives who otherwise wanted to jump ship, and husbands who did also. But the laws have changed and those consequences have been all but wiped away for women and left in place for men.

Personally I can understand falling in love with anyone to the point of wanting to spend the rest of your life with them. People change though, and you have no assurance that the person they will change into will be one who wouldn't take advantage of you. There aren't any legal consequences for them not too, actually it's quite the opposite.

in most cases men are still the bread winners but that is steadily changing... But I mean that right there should be a signal for ya to see why things still are the way they are though I don't typically think it's as bad as you think...

I mean.. If you're married to someone do t you want to make them happy? Isn't that the whole point of it? Is that really all that hard most of the time? There are arguments that can be made for either side though... If someone is caught cheating or if there is physical violence in the relationship or if the kids aren't being treated well by one of them etc... Those all apply to both sexes...

There are arguments to be made for either side but it really depends on the relationship of that specific couple and what you can prove... There are consequences for both and to say otherwise is just false...

So what are some negative consequences for women who choose to divorce their bread winning husband? Let's compare.

did your last girlfriend slip her pinky up your butt? why so venomous towards the ladies today?

"Breadwinner"

*rolls eyes*

How to tell someone is immature by one word.

I love the ladies, especially when the put the finger up my butt. I just don't want to marry them.

On the flip-side, maybe he's upset because because he didn't he the pinky up the posterior?

Historical discussions call for historical terms.

which is fine, and makes sense. to demonize the entire institution of marriage as a prison for all men is dishonest and silly. you have to learn to look at ***though other people's eyes.

This thread isn't locked yet ?

eh I wouldn't go that far, just that it's a pretty bad deal for men when you look at the entire picture.

Not to mention the hidden ovulation.

I'll demonize marriage because any institution that ends with "death to us part" is a bad thing !

Marriage should be I'll love you till "you stop being a ***/*** or become an overweight Netflix addict"

It's a choice just like any other, there are risks, there are rewards.

The only positive of marriage is 2 bank accounts instead of one.

One for her and one for the family?