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I feel sorry those kids fresh outta high school who marry their HS sweethearts. Right at the age where they need to be free and do what they want, they decide to get tied down by the only person whose blown or given them a hand job.
Tbest said:
Artemicion said:
Tbest said:
O.oa A few years is a looooong time. >.>
Indeed, but hopefully it'll be worth the time if your partner passed previous prerequisites enough for them to move in with you, which has its benefits and hassles too. But it's all about climbing up at a comfortable level. Instead of rushing to the top and have your latter tumble down when you're near the top.
OH SNAP!!! But um well he sorta has a point no?
Kungfuhustle said:
I feel sorry those kids fresh outta high school who marry their HS sweethearts. Right at the age where they need to be free and do what they want, they decide to get tied down by the only person whose blown or given them a hand job.
I kinda lol'd. Does that make me a bad person? XD
Kungfuhustle said:
I feel sorry those kids fresh outta high school who marry their HS sweethearts. Right at the age where they need to be free and do what they want, they decide to get tied down by the only person whose blown or given them a hand job.
Ah the wisdom of KFH always so elegantly worded...but some truth in there nonetheless
Dasva said:
Tbest said:
Artemicion said:
Tbest said:
O.oa A few years is a looooong time. >.>
Indeed, but hopefully it'll be worth the time if your partner passed previous prerequisites enough for them to move in with you, which has its benefits and hassles too. But it's all about climbing up at a comfortable level. Instead of rushing to the top and have your latter tumble down when you're near the top.
OH SNAP!!! But um well he sorta has a point no?
He's right, I'm honestly not that experienced, but that doesn't mean I can't have an outlook or opinion of things?
Dasva said:
Tbest said:
Artemicion said:
Tbest said:
O.oa A few years is a looooong time. >.>
Indeed, but hopefully it'll be worth the time if your partner passed previous prerequisites enough for them to move in with you, which has its benefits and hassles too. But it's all about climbing up at a comfortable level. Instead of rushing to the top and have your latter tumble down when you're near the top.
OH SNAP!!! But um well he sorta has a point no?
you can look at the friends you have who made the mistake of rushing and you'll see the end result, pain and misery. What makes it worse is when those idiots who rushed into everything pro-create, so that makes it even harder to split when things don't work out.
Artemicion said:
Dasva said:
Tbest said:
Artemicion said:
Tbest said:
O.oa A few years is a looooong time. >.>
Indeed, but hopefully it'll be worth the time if your partner passed previous prerequisites enough for them to move in with you, which has its benefits and hassles too. But it's all about climbing up at a comfortable level. Instead of rushing to the top and have your latter tumble down when you're near the top.
OH SNAP!!! But um well he sorta has a point no?
He's right, I'm honestly not that experienced, but that doesn't mean I can't have an outlook or opinion of things?
True... but will you have that same outlook when the time comes? Will you want to? Will they?
Free...
It's like being in a relationship is a bad thing. Why can't young couples go out and experience the world together? ;x
It's like being in a relationship is a bad thing. Why can't young couples go out and experience the world together? ;x
Artemicion said:
Tbest said:
Artemicion said:
Tbest said:
O.oa A few years is a looooong time. >.>
Indeed, but hopefully it'll be worth the time if your partner passed previous prerequisites enough for them to move in with you, which has its benefits and hassles too. But it's all about climbing up at a comfortable level. Instead of rushing to the top and have your latter tumble down when you're near the top.
Just an outlook on things. Doesn't make them right, just makes it safe. I'll give props to anyone who falls madly in love rushes into getting married and has happy lives without wasting any years of downtime. It's just unusual and rare to get through the hurtles of life without any friction whatsoever.
Kungfuhustle said:
Dasva said:
Tbest said:
Artemicion said:
Tbest said:
O.oa A few years is a looooong time. >.>
Indeed, but hopefully it'll be worth the time if your partner passed previous prerequisites enough for them to move in with you, which has its benefits and hassles too. But it's all about climbing up at a comfortable level. Instead of rushing to the top and have your latter tumble down when you're near the top.
OH SNAP!!! But um well he sorta has a point no?
you can look at the friends you have who made the mistake of rushing and you'll see the end result, pain and misery. What makes it worse is when those idiots who rushed into everything pro-create, so that makes it even harder to split when things don't work out.
Yeah, I've seen enough friend/family drama to know what typically is and is not acceptable for general relationships. For now, I'm fairly content being single until I find someone awesome to come in. Then I'll make my move. If that don't work out, well then it's wash, rinse, repeat.
I laugh at people who marry and then decide to live together.
It's a whole different ball game when you live with the person.
Most end up in divorce after a few short months/years.
It's a whole different ball game when you live with the person.
Most end up in divorce after a few short months/years.
Yeah, no way I'd even get engaged to someone if I didn't live with them first.
Dasva said:
Kungfuhustle said:
I feel sorry those kids fresh outta high school who marry their HS sweethearts. Right at the age where they need to be free and do what they want, they decide to get tied down by the only person whose blown or given them a hand job.
Ah the wisdom of KFH always so elegantly worded...but some truth in there nonetheless
my words always have truth, whether its obvious or not is up to the reader. Girls today are so full of unrealistic fantasies about finding Mr.Right, having a nice house/car/marriage/blahblahblah, that when reality slaps them in the face like a powdered pimp hand, its too late. They're already knocked up, arguing with their spouse over why he's flirting with other women, and before you know it, DIVORCE.
Tbest said:
]Hurdles..... And, imo... After 9 months to a year, it's time for the 'next step'. If things go awry after the living together / engagement... Ya cut your losses and move on. Several years is just too much time to waste to not have anything come of it.
Yeah did that. 5 years. Wouldnt say it was a waste though.
Dasva said:
True... but will you have that same outlook when the time comes? Will you want to? Will they?
Hard to say. I'm 22 and quite frankly growing up is a life long process. Minds change among others and myself included. We'll just have to see how things go and make choices based on a mix of logic and emotion for what seems good at the time.
Hopefully my complexity will click with another and things will be good enough to stretch it down together for years to come.
Dasva said:
Rumaha said:
Terijima said:
Cheyne said:
Btw on a random note who likes me avatar? Testing out new one.
(That's totaly not me in an Optimus Prime helmet.)
(That's totaly not me in an Optimus Prime helmet.)
XD I love it.
Ruma @ Sav!
And Chu!
And...
uhm...
Aly!
Chuuuu denie me, hard
Savy am not shes just mah bff ._.
and Aly i believe also turned me down, hard ; ;
Ah... in some ways I wished this had happened to me
>.>
Cele that was one serious swing and a miss >.>
What should I make for dinner?
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
Celene said:
I laugh at people who marry and then decide to live together.
It's a whole different ball game when you live with the person.
Most end up in divorce after a few short months/years.
It's a whole different ball game when you live with the person.
Most end up in divorce after a few short months/years.
OH god how the hell could you not move in together first!?! Wtf.
Celene said:
I laugh at people who marry and then decide to live together.
It's a whole different ball game when you live with the person.
Most end up in divorce after a few short months/years.
It's a whole different ball game when you live with the person.
Most end up in divorce after a few short months/years.
Yep yep, always know if you're on stable ground before going all the way. Or else it's quite simply a leap of faith.
Alyria said:
Dasva said:
Rumaha said:
Terijima said:
Cheyne said:
Btw on a random note who likes me avatar? Testing out new one.
(That's totaly not me in an Optimus Prime helmet.)
(That's totaly not me in an Optimus Prime helmet.)
XD I love it.
Ruma @ Sav!
And Chu!
And...
uhm...
Aly!
Chuuuu denie me, hard
Savy am not shes just mah bff ._.
and Aly i believe also turned me down, hard ; ;
Ah... in some ways I wished this had happened to me
>.>
Lol... well ya know how things are... kinda mopey ok. Though some good happened too
Rumaha said:
Cele that was one serious swing and a miss >.>
HEY.
I was in the right continent... give me credit for that? ;[
Celene said:
What should I make for dinner?
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
Celene said:
What should I make for dinner?
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I made this awesome meatloaf with carrots and olives the other night. Quite tasty, along with mashed potatoes, gravy and a slivered almond / cranberry salad with a vinaigrette. Delish ;3
Making bacon rapped scallops/shrimp tonight seasoned with lime and other spices along with moar mashed potatoes but with crushed garlic and using red potatoes this time around (butter onry this time around, no gravy), along with steamed asparagus to make use of that butter too.
And for dessert! Home made apple crisp. Baking with raw apples so they keep some crunchy-ness when it's all done.
Oh and hi thar Aly <3
Tbest said:
Celene said:
What should I make for dinner?
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I can has?
Ok seriously you people are making me hungry
Tbest said:
Celene said:
What should I make for dinner?
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
No cheeseburgers. :[ Those while camping on Friday.
Artemicion said:
Celene said:
What should I make for dinner?
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I made this awesome meatloaf with carrots and olives the other night. Quite tasty, along with mashed potatoes, gravy and a slivered almond / cranberry salad with a vinaigrette. Delish ;3
Artemicion said:
Celene said:
What should I make for dinner?
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I made this awesome meatloaf with carrots and olives the other night. Quite tasty, along with mashed potatoes, gravy and a slivered almond / cranberry salad with a vinaigrette. Delish ;3
Me want.
You should just come be my personal elf-self chef. xD
Artemicion said:
Celene said:
What should I make for dinner?
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I have ... ground beefz out. :o
*pokes Arte*
I made this awesome meatloaf with carrots and olives the other night. Quite tasty, along with mashed potatoes, gravy and a slivered almond / cranberry salad with a vinaigrette. Delish ;3
D: Oh god. that sounds so delicious.
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