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FFXIAH Linkshell Ni
 Caitsith.Zahrah
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-07-10 10:49:08
Be quiet.
Sit straight, with legs closed.
Speak politely.
Never interrupt others.
Keep a discreet behaviour.
Laugh softly.
Never raise your voice.
Excuse yourself when leaving.
Bow when greeting.
Don't engage in physical contact.
Eat in small bites, without making noise, with the proper tools.
The bolded! That's a ***' weird one! Under what circumstances?
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Bismarck.Leneth
By Bismarck.Leneth 2015-07-10 10:49:20
Be quiet.
Sit straight, with legs closed.✓
Speak politely.✓
Never interrupt others.✓
Keep a discreet behaviour.
Laugh softly.
Never raise your voice.✓
Excuse yourself when leaving.✓
Bow when greeting.
Don't engage in physical contact.
Eat in small bites, without making noise, with the proper tools.✓ YouTube Video Placeholder
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 Valefor.Sehachan
サーバ: Valefor
Game: FFXI
Posts: 24219
By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-07-10 10:53:40
The bolded! That's a ***' weird one! Under what circumstances? Any really. People don't like to be touched and so you should never do that without their consent, at least that is the rule I go by.
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-07-10 10:58:14
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 Siren.Mosin
By Siren.Mosin 2015-07-10 10:58:35
People don't like to be touched
that's not accurate at all, but I hear from good sources that the men in italy play pretty fast & loose with personal boundaries.
lol
I touches all the peoples.
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Valefor.Sehachan
サーバ: Valefor
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Posts: 24219
By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-07-10 10:59:57
I didn't just mean sexually eh. Some people are touchy in general when talking to you.
I had a friend who would constantly push on my shoulder when talking to me, it was so annoying. And he wasn't even light about it, was like every sentence was a punch in the shoulder.
Bismarck.Leneth
By Bismarck.Leneth 2015-07-10 11:02:59
I didn't just mean sexually eh. Some people are touchy in general when talking to you.
I had a friend who would constantly push on my shoulder when talking to me, it was so annoying. And he wasn't even light about it, was like every sentence was a punch in the shoulder. Still sounds better than Juncker.
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サーバ: Shiva
Game: FFXI
Posts: 92
By Shiva.Kienasia 2015-07-10 11:04:43
Hello everyone. /wave How's everyone today?
By Ramyrez 2015-07-10 11:05:48
Bismarck.Dracondria said: »I hate huggers
So does my wife, unless it's people she's close to. Which makes life around my paternal family sort of hell on her. They'll hug anything. They're like an entire clan of giant toddlers looking for the ideal teddy bear.
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Caitsith.Zahrah
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-07-10 11:09:05
The bolded! That's a ***' weird one! Under what circumstances? Any really. People don't like to be touched and so you should never do that without their consent, at least that is the rule I go by.
Well, of course it's dependent on familiarity. Just injecting a "***" since we went from cursing to courtesy jokingly.
I assumed, for some reason, you had to engage in the double peck on the cheek with the older members of your family. That's honestly less weird than the American default to casual hugging after only meeting the person a couple of times.
/side hug
/awkward double pat on the back
EDIT: Bismarck.Dracondria said: »I hate huggers
Yeah, I only hate huggers I don't know well enough to cross the hug threshold.
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By Ramyrez 2015-07-10 11:12:08
That's honestly less weird than the American default to casual hugging after only meeting the person a couple of times.
Both quite weird to me.
I guess I get it with my family as my wife is family even though they don't know her super-well, but have known me since infancy, and my family is very welcoming.
But overall I'm not hugging anyone I'm not super-cool with/related to and I'm certainly not kissing much of anyone who isn't my wife outside of the occasional peck on the check from my mother or grandmother.
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サーバ: Shiva
Game: FFXI
Posts: 20130
By Shiva.Nikolce 2015-07-10 11:12:13
This is an argument that will go on ad infinitum if you let it.
not if you agree to just give it a try just try eliminating cursing out of your repertoire and see how it goes.
I disagree, somewhat rarely, they are the BEST idea to convey a point.
never. they are never ever the best. it's the screech of a chimp, nothing more. it conveys agitation and a lack of confidence
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By Ramyrez 2015-07-10 11:16:01
not if you agree to just give it a try just try eliminating cursing out of your repertoire and see how it goes.
The problem here is you seem to think I operate on a day-to-day basis the entire day using "***" every other word. I certainly do not. I spend a good half of the day without uttering so much as a single "dammit" within ear shot of anyone else.
For me it's less about having to use the words all the time; it's about letting them fall in natural, casual conversation where they may and not having the world come to a screeching halt going, "he said a swear!"
I'm not big on arbitrary social taboos.
it's the screech of a chimp, nothing more.
Strictly speaking, every word we utter is.
Unless you're an evolution denier.
Then you're a stupid screeching chimp.
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サーバ: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 33979
By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-07-10 11:17:39
Hugging is kind of a no-no over here unless you know someone very well
We don't talk to other people anywhere if we don't know them either lol
Seen some people try to talk to others on public transportation and that's just not gonna happen, no one ever speaks on the train or the bus
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 Leviathan.Chaosx
サーバ: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 20284
By Leviathan.Chaosx 2015-07-10 11:20:30
How on earth do you pick up chicks if you never talk to strangers?
Valefor.Sehachan
サーバ: Valefor
Game: FFXI
Posts: 24219
By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-07-10 11:21:54
Honestly I was quite confused when I initially transitioned from the italian forums I was used to to the english ones.
On this side swearing seems so normal and part of the common vernacular, I was quite wary of using it too at first, but then I adapted to the way everyone seems to engage in casual conversation which seems to possess an ample use of ***, hells, damns, and sometimes even shits.
Caitsith.Zahrah
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-07-10 11:24:32
That's honestly less weird than the American default to casual hugging after only meeting the person a couple of times.
Both quite weird to me.
I guess I get it with my family as my wife is family even though they don't know her super-well, but have known me since infancy, and my family is very welcoming.
But overall I'm not hugging anyone I'm not super-cool with/related to and I'm certainly not kissing much of anyone who isn't my wife outside of the occasional peck on the check from my mother or grandmother.
Quick double kiss versus outdoor-summer-huggers...GO!
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By Ramyrez 2015-07-10 11:26:24
Bismarck.Dracondria said: »Seen some people try to talk to others on public transportation and that's just not gonna happen, no one ever speaks on the train or the bus
That's the kind of public transportation I can appreciate.
Not the Indian kind where if someone is sitting next to you, you hope they're the same gender or one of you is going to end up pregnant from how tightly you're all jammed in there.
By Ramyrez 2015-07-10 11:26:58
Quick double kiss versus outdoor-summer-huggers...GO!
If I'm outdoors that much in the summer, I'm probably drunk and can deal with the hug.
Caitsith.Zahrah
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-07-10 11:27:08
Bismarck.Dracondria said: »Hugging is kind of a no-no over here unless you know someone very well
We don't talk to other people anywhere if we don't know them either lol
Seen some people try to talk to others on public transportation and that's just not gonna happen, no one ever speaks on the train or the bus
Oh God! If only it were that way here. Grocery store, see someone you know, obligatory hug.
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VIP
サーバ: Odin
Game: FFXI
Posts: 9534
By Odin.Jassik 2015-07-10 11:27:48
never. they are never ever the best. it's the screech of a chimp, nothing more. it conveys agitation and a lack of confidence
Swearing is the new throwing feces.
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By Ramyrez 2015-07-10 11:30:55
never. they are never ever the best. it's the screech of a chimp, nothing more. it conveys agitation and a lack of confidence
Swearing is the new throwing feces.
Sweet.
Pitching poop is back on the list of options!
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Caitsith.Zahrah
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-07-10 11:31:04
Quick double kiss versus outdoor-summer-huggers...GO!
If I'm outdoors that much in the summer, I'm probably drunk and can deal with the hug.
Ha! I'm a very tactile drunk!
サーバ: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 33979
By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-07-10 11:32:59
Bismarck.Dracondria said: »Hugging is kind of a no-no over here unless you know someone very well
We don't talk to other people anywhere if we don't know them either lol
Seen some people try to talk to others on public transportation and that's just not gonna happen, no one ever speaks on the train or the bus
Oh God! If only it were that way here. Grocery store, see someone you know, obligatory hug.
Here it's more of a hey and then you continue shopping unless you haven't seen each other in a while lol (then you might speak for a bit)
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サーバ: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 3080
By Asura.Yomisha 2015-07-10 11:37:57
This is an argument that will go on ad infinitum if you let it.
not if you agree to just give it a try just try eliminating cursing out of your repertoire and see how it goes.
I disagree, somewhat rarely, they are the BEST idea to convey a point.
never. they are never ever the best. it's the screech of a chimp, nothing more. it conveys agitation and a lack of confidence Lack of confidence? Really? Well *** you, buddy! :P
In all seriousness, I curse like a sailor. But I know when to keep that in check. It really has nothing to do with whether or not I'm agitated or lacking confidence. It's just how I talk. I can be more eloquent if need be, but life is entirely too short to be that bothered by it.
Any word can convey agitation, when said in a certain way. No tone/body language to go by? Context helps.
This sort of stuff bothers me. I recently had a certain in-law crying to my fiance that I was mean because I said "What?" when my name was called. I may as well have said "What the *** do you want?" with the reaction I got, lol. Skin is too thin these days!
 Bismarck.Magnuss
サーバ: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 28615
By Bismarck.Magnuss 2015-07-10 11:38:36
I'm not a big hugger. A handshake will do just as well.
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サーバ: Shiva
Game: FFXI
Posts: 20130
By Shiva.Nikolce 2015-07-10 11:41:42
you seem to think I operate on a day-to-day basis the entire day using "***" every other word.
that's all a delusion you just made up. it's caused by your own inequities. I never said anything of the sort.
What I did say was try to eliminate all curse words from your vocabulary. they are a verbal crutch we all put too much weight on.
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Caitsith.Zahrah
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-07-10 11:42:59
This is an argument that will go on ad infinitum if you let it.
not if you agree to just give it a try just try eliminating cursing out of your repertoire and see how it goes.
I disagree, somewhat rarely, they are the BEST idea to convey a point.
never. they are never ever the best. it's the screech of a chimp, nothing more. it conveys agitation and a lack of confidence Lack of confidence? Really? Well *** you, buddy! :P
In all seriousness, I curse like a sailor. But I know when to keep that in check. It really has nothing to do with whether or not I'm agitated or lacking confidence. It's just how I talk. I can be more eloquent if need be, but life is entirely too short to be that bothered by it.
Any word can convey agitation, when said in a certain way. No tone/body language to go by? Context helps.
This sort of stuff bothers me. I recently had a certain in-law crying to my fiance that I was mean because I said "What?" when my name was called. I may as well have said "What the *** do you want?" with the reaction I got, lol. Skin is too thin these days!
Absolutely agree. Why grasp at some imaginary, implied sentiment over an instance of shortness (especially when you might be preoccupied) or belting out a four letter word here and there among people who are familiar with you anyway?
How've you been lately?
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Ramuh.Urial
サーバ: Ramuh
Game: FFXI
Posts: 31068
By Ramuh.Urial 2015-07-10 11:48:07
Wooo 7 hours til I my mini road trip. Lived here almost 2 years...first time going south of Norman lol.
サーバ: Shiva
Game: FFXI
Posts: 20130
By Shiva.Nikolce 2015-07-10 11:51:13
I love you too darling. Best wishes to you and your fiance on your happily ever after.
Remember the old saying.
You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar
I haven't got a clue what you should do with the sudden surplus of flies you find yourself with afterwards...but it's super effective.
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Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree
Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
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Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
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Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
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Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
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