Rowland said:
Maybe that'll work. I just think she'll take it the wrong way and either really try to make time to hang out with me for awhile then be a leech again. Or she'll just say "ok we're done then I guess"
It's possible...I mean, it can go one of two ways: She can acknowledge that she's taking advantage of your friendship and mend her ways, which will only make the friendship better, or she'll just ignore you and continue to be a leech...in which case it's better that the friendship end anyway, cuz she obviously doesn't really give a ***outside of the material.
Either way, speaking up about it is pretty much the only option if you wanna escape that ***...trust me, I was in that position for quite a while until I lost my goddamn mind on her, shoulda done that ***sooner lol
Krizz said:
Well, I think #2 was lucky in his situation where they are still decent friends. Personally, I think the odds are more likely on the "ok we're done then I guess." Not trying to be negative, just speaking from personal experience and observations.
Yeah, it could have easily gone the other way, but luckily in my situation I wasn't the only one telling her similar things to this at the time. She was a right spoiled brat for a while, Daddy is a Doctor, Mommy was head of the RN's at the hospital they worked at, so she pretty much got whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted. She's still somewhat spoiled, but her parents have kinda cut her off so she's definitely more appreciative of what it means to actually have to support yourself and the real value of a dollar. If it'd just been me telling her she was being a ***, then she coulda just said *** it, but with other friends telling her this as well, I think it was a big eye opener for her.