What Kind Of Guy/girl Do U Like?
what kind of guy/girl do u like?
But again, me and Hase, are working with a potentially slightly different definition. Its more like "at first conversation", as opposed to literal sight of the person.
Odin.Zicdeh said:
It makes sense, I've been a firm believer that "Love at first sight" is merely "Lust at first sight".
Ifrit.Eikechi said:
But again, me and Hase, are working with a potentially slightly different definition. Its more like "at first conversation", as opposed to literal sight of the person.
Sight = Sight. I don't understand how that can be misinterpreted.
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Ifrit.Eikechi said:
But again, me and Hase, are working with a potentially slightly different definition. Its more like "at first conversation", as opposed to literal sight of the person.
From a single conversation, the absolute MOST information you can gather is whether or not you have a affinity for this person. I have an affinity towards tons of people, and I wouldn't date most of them. Anyway... Knowing whether or not you have an affinity towards someone isn't enough to base your feelings off of.
Idk, just me though.
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Leviathan.Niniann said:
Ifrit.Eikechi said:
But again, me and Hase, are working with a potentially slightly different definition. Its more like "at first conversation", as opposed to literal sight of the person.
From a single conversation, the absolute MOST information you can gather is whether or not you have a affinity for this person. I have an affinity towards tons of people, and I wouldn't date most of them. Anyway... Knowing whether or not you have an affinity towards someone isn't enough to base your feelings off of.
Idk, just me though.
Bismarck.Recaldy said:
Leviathan.Niniann said:
Ifrit.Eikechi said:
But again, me and Hase, are working with a potentially slightly different definition. Its more like "at first conversation", as opposed to literal sight of the person.
From a single conversation, the absolute MOST information you can gather is whether or not you have a affinity for this person. I have an affinity towards tons of people, and I wouldn't date most of them. Anyway... Knowing whether or not you have an affinity towards someone isn't enough to base your feelings off of.
Idk, just me though.
/nod
Guess I missed that but I agree.
Well the first time you "see" that person, is the first date, no? So from that first conversation you could develop strong feelings... Thats all I'm sayin really, and thats just my views on it. Not right or wrong, but I wouldn't instantly call somebody else "wrong" for their views/opinions
Ifrit.Eikechi said:
Well the first time you "see" that person, is the first date, no? So from that first conversation you could develop strong feelings... Thats all I'm sayin really, and thats just my views on it. Not right or wrong, but I wouldn't instantly call somebody else "wrong" for their views/opinions
That would imply that the very fist encounter with any female would have to be a "date", wouldn't it?
Personally, I see a lot of women and it's not a date.
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o
(See waht I did there? *^_^*)
(See waht I did there? *^_^*)
I suppose thats technically true Zic. But when you hear people that are talking about going out they say.. "I'm going to see so and so" or "I'm seeing so and so"... its semantics and a little bit of a stretch, but its feasible lol
Ifrit.Eikechi said:
Well the first time you "see" that person, is the first date, no? So from that first conversation you could develop strong feelings... Thats all I'm sayin really, and thats just my views on it. Not right or wrong, but I wouldn't instantly call somebody else "wrong" for their views/opinions
You can develop strong feelings, sure. I can't even deny this since one of my best/longest relationships happened basically the second day I met him. Heck, the love at first sight feelings were more or less dead-on, and I did truly love him (eventually), but saying I was legit in love would be silly. It was 100% infatuation with an attractive charismatic Asian man.
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Bismarck.Recaldy said:
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o
(See waht I did there? *^_^*)
(See waht I did there? *^_^*)
in the land of the bronies, anything is possible
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Bismarck.Recaldy said:
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o
(See waht I did there? *^_^*)
(See waht I did there? *^_^*)
No, but that's not necessarily what most women want. I'm too manly to be some man's princess, but I don't mind being treated like one on occasion.
Bismarck.Recaldy said:
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*)
Some would say it is but personally I've always felt a movie/book/video game is lacking if there isnt some kind of romance involved as long as its not to overly dramatic, IE one book I read i was like "aww there too cute and make me want to throw up... i bet she is knocked up by chapter 16" Guess what happened in chapter 16 XD
Bismarck.Recaldy said:
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*)
I think that men should not be romantic in any way. I think they should be completely self-orientated and believe women are there to serve them. I think it's important for the man to focus only on his physical satisfaction with no concern for his partner.
Because that keeps ashman in business, sweeping the rest off their feet ;3
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I agree, kinda. Romance adds a lot of depth to a story and as someone who feels strong emotions often, I find stories with love as part of them very touching (the idea of fighting etc for your loved one for instance).
That said, gratuitous sex scenes or whatever can ruin it entirely. Call me weird but despite being a very sexual person, I dislike sex scenes in movies/books etc. If I want sex, I'll go watch porn. If I'm playing a game/watching a (non-pornographic) movie or reading a book, then sex scenes RARELY add anything to the story.
That said, gratuitous sex scenes or whatever can ruin it entirely. Call me weird but despite being a very sexual person, I dislike sex scenes in movies/books etc. If I want sex, I'll go watch porn. If I'm playing a game/watching a (non-pornographic) movie or reading a book, then sex scenes RARELY add anything to the story.
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Asura.Ina said:
Bismarck.Recaldy said:
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*)
You want to go to the midnight show of breaking dawn with me?
Bahamut.Raenryong said:
I agree, kinda. Romance adds a lot of depth to a story and as someone who feels strong emotions often, I find stories with love as part of them very touching (the idea of fighting etc for your loved one for instance).
That said, gratuitous sex scenes or whatever can ruin it entirely. Call me weird but despite being a very sexual person, I dislike sex scenes in movies/books etc. If I want sex, I'll go watch porn. If I'm playing a game/watching a (non-pornographic) movie or reading a book, then sex scenes RARELY add anything to the story.
That said, gratuitous sex scenes or whatever can ruin it entirely. Call me weird but despite being a very sexual person, I dislike sex scenes in movies/books etc. If I want sex, I'll go watch porn. If I'm playing a game/watching a (non-pornographic) movie or reading a book, then sex scenes RARELY add anything to the story.
Ragnarok.Ashman said:
Asura.Ina said:
Bismarck.Recaldy said:
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*)
Death before those movies
Nooo, no speaking of Twilight in this wonderful thread! :<
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Nooo, no speaking of Twilight in this wonderful thread! :<
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Twilight knife
Twilight cloak
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Nooo, no speaking of sparkly drama *** vampire movies in this wonderful thread! :<
Fixed
Bahamut.Raenryong said:
I agree, kinda. Romance adds a lot of depth to a story and as someone who feels strong emotions often, I find stories with love as part of them very touching (the idea of fighting etc for your loved one for instance).
That said, gratuitous sex scenes or whatever can ruin it entirely. Call me weird but despite being a very sexual person, I dislike sex scenes in movies/books etc. If I want sex, I'll go watch porn. If I'm playing a game/watching a (non-pornographic) movie or reading a book, then sex scenes RARELY add anything to the story.
That said, gratuitous sex scenes or whatever can ruin it entirely. Call me weird but despite being a very sexual person, I dislike sex scenes in movies/books etc. If I want sex, I'll go watch porn. If I'm playing a game/watching a (non-pornographic) movie or reading a book, then sex scenes RARELY add anything to the story.
absolutely agreed, when sex scenes happen in an otherwise deep, well-told story where you are attached to the characters, you just get this awkward feeling roughly equivalent to playing peeping tom on your friends
Try having a (Male) friend who legitimately enjoys the films and books. And he's not even a prissy floating butterfly. He looks like Seth Rogan.
Asura.Ina said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Nooo, no speaking of sparkly drama *** vampire movies in this wonderful thread! :<
@Zic: :|
Odin.Zicdeh said:
Try having a (Male) friend who legitimately enjoys the films and books. And he's not even a prissy floating butterfly. He's looks like Seth Rogan.
Since you can imagine different characters than Robert Shoeface and Kristen Stewart.
Ragnarok.Ashman said:
Bismarck.Recaldy said:
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*)
I think that men should not be romantic in any way. I think they should be completely self-orientated and believe women are there to serve them. I think it's important for the man to focus only on his physical satisfaction with no concern for his partner.
Because that keeps ashman in business, sweeping the rest off their feet ;3
/gasp
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Odin.Zicdeh said:
Try having a (Male) friend who legitimately enjoys the films and books. And he's not even a prissy floating butterfly. He's looks like Seth Rogan.
Since you can imagine different characters than Robert Shoeface and Kristen Stewart.
Yeah, I get that. I think they're horribly written and nothing more than mediocre fanfic... but at least it has the slight level of intellectual legitimacy that comes with reading the printed word.
It's just kind of funny when the last one came out, total role reversal, he's the one dragging his groaning fiance to the movie.
zahrah said:
Ragnarok.Ashman said:
Bismarck.Recaldy said:
To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*)
*catches Zahrah dramatically with wind blowing through both of their hair*
Odin.Zicdeh said:
Try having a (Male) friend who legitimately enjoys the films and books. And he's not even a prissy floating butterfly. He looks like Seth Rogan.
legitimately enjoys the films and books and is a relatively hairy (albeit thinner) male.
Have we met?
Honest question: how would you define romance as applied IRL? Honestly I think it's more of a story-telling device and doesn't exactly exist IRL in the same manifestations as Hollywood. Not saying I don't believe in love or passion, but the term romance really is lost on me.
I'm a bad woman apparently.
I'm a bad woman apparently.
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