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 Fenrir.Nightfyre
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By Fenrir.Nightfyre 2011-08-07 14:28:32  
Fenrir.Niniann said:
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My car is a TARDIS, your argument is invalid.

I'M PRETTY SURE IT IS NOT.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha 2011-08-07 14:29:28  
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Are you the kinda guy that takes pictures of nice cars they see out on the road and put them on Facebook? lol

Some friends do that. I think it's stupid.
I don't take pictures(and I'm female!), but you should hear me when I see a nice car! <3 cars
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 14:30:23  
Caitsith.Zahrah said:
Have to agree with Nini here. Sniveling betas do not make good mates for alphas. Someone always ends up with hurt feelings.

By golly! Nini and I seem to have the same taste in men!

Yeah, it's horrible. I don't want to have to tiptoe around someone's feelings. I want to do whatever I want to do, and I want to know that they're fine with it and/or support me. I like a man who's confident in himself and knows that I only want him. I don't want to be with someone who's afraid to lose me and clings onto me. I don't want to be with someone who thinks they're going to die if I'm not around. Yeaaaah.

It's because we're awesome, thus our taste in men is awesome! >:3
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 14:31:19  
Fenrir.Nightfyre said:

Fiiiiiiiiiiiiiien.

Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha said:
I don't take pictures(and I'm female!), but you should hear me when I see a nice car! <3 cars

I enjoy pretty cars too.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2011-08-07 14:46:00  
Fenrir.Niniann said:
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Have to agree with Nini here. Sniveling betas do not make good mates for alphas. Someone always ends up with hurt feelings.

By golly! Nini and I seem to have the same taste in men!

Yeah, it's horrible. I don't want to have to tiptoe around someone's feelings. I want to do whatever I want to do, and I want to know that they're fine with it and/or support me. I like a man who's confident in himself and knows that I only want him. I don't want to be with someone who's afraid to lose me and clings onto me. I don't want to be with someone who thinks they're going to die if I'm not around. Yeaaaah.

It's because we're awesome, thus our taste in men is awesome! >:3

/high five
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 15:12:22  
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/high five

/high five >:3
 
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 15:57:36  
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
I'd be shocked if a woman got cheated on by one of those alphas and came out of it genuinely recovered and confident still, so rare to see that type of trauma completely managed

The trick is to find an alpha who isn't a douchebag. Though, to be honest, most 'douchebags' aren't even alphas they're just stupid douches. I guess the issue here is most people can't distinguish an alpha from a douchebag and think they're synonymous since douches typically seem more confident. Then some girls proceed to date betas because they think they're 'nice guys' when in reality they're not. They're pushovers who put a pussy on a pedestal and the girl they're with ends up unhappy. Most betas also have a lot of emotional baggage.

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And I never meet such emotionally healthy people as some of the posters appear here irl, it's like irl either they're too dumb to be aware of these dimensions or their just a well hidden train wreck to be honest

I've got my share of baggage, but I do my best to not let it affect my current relationship.

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And personally I'm no better I just have spent years mastering concealing my flaws, as a couple people I know here have been shown

Honestly, everyone has their flaws/problems. It's just how they deal with them that matters. No one's perfect.
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 16:07:35  
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
See I wish it was so simple. half the time when someone like me warms up to a woman and notices their needs to provide them, they turn around and secretly wanted beta behavior. (and I don't mean just young/confused women) I'm really not convinced anyones needs/desires even stay the same and constant anymore but yeah your points make sense

What type of beta behavior? Maybe I just really, really hate betas and it's actually a preference thing... honestly I don't see how anyone could want a beta though. >_>;

I dunno, I've been pretty constant my entire life, I've just picked insanely wrong people for the most part. I could be an exception though. >_>;
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-07 16:12:51  
i dont think ive dated a beta :| whats so bad about them? :O
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By Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha 2011-08-07 16:14:13  
I need a happy medium when it comes to the whole alpha/beta thing. I blame the Libra in me. >:3 But I think I've found him, so I won't complain about being a little picky!
 
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-07 16:21:55  
so beta males = females :|
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 16:22:22  
Asura.Chuuuuu said:
i dont think ive dated a beta :| whats so bad about them? :O

They're insecure, clingy, and let you walk all over them. Ick.

Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha said:
I need a happy medium when it comes to the whole alpha/beta thing. I blame the Libra in me. >:3 But I think I've found him, so I won't complain about being a little picky!

I dunno, I think people have the wrong definition of alpha, and unfortunately I'm doing a poor job of describing it. @@;
 
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-07 16:24:40  
lol no wonder ive never dated one and why its so hard for me to find a sane clingy male lol i date men, not women :|
 
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 16:26:47  
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
I think more guys want that type of behavior than women you're right but it's more about a lack of equality than anything else.

Like a guy can handle a partner well, thats more insecure or more dependant than a woman can but I'm not saying it's right it just seems like the behavior that has existed

Yeah, usually when a guy signs up to date women it's somewhat expected to get that type of behavior. If I wanted to date a woman, I'd be a lesbian.

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As for women wanting betas yeah I've known a few that like playing teachers more often than not and get a thrill out of that type of dominance in life, like I'm sure guys do (I don't mean sexually) like it affirms them, that position empowers etc

There's always some form of power struggle I think, even subconsciously

I suppose if they're that insecure about themselves...

It's not like I'm Night's slave since he's an alpha. We're pretty much equal in regards to everything, or at least he treats me as such. Being alpha doesn't mean you treat your partner as inferior.
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 16:28:08  
Asura.Catastrophe said:
Security would probably be the best answer, Niniann. There's a certain mindset when it comes to Alphas, you don't have to just be a douche or be somewhat of a insensitive guy, but having control over their own lives, and a sense of ambition day to day at least, and not being traditionally effeminate.

Alphas are likely generally go getters, and usually don't take being taken advantage of lying down.

Thank you, that's a good definition. :3
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-07 16:28:15  
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
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lol no wonder ive never dated one and why its so hard for me to find a sane clingy male lol i date men, not women :|
it's not hard to find them psht think of all the ones you've dated like Eso

I'd say the majority of men and women are betas /shrug but yeah I bet a professional would come slap me for saying that, probably a huge mistakes
oh eso... lol i get what u mean lol ive always been an beta female :| so wat lol
 
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-07 16:29:19  
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
I think we're confusing the term using it so broadly

It's a lot of things, and it's hard to define. @@;
 
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-07 16:29:51  
i like a guy that doesnt whine like a girl :P i do that enough already lol
 
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