Fenrir.Niniann said:
Some people don't care, I know I typically don't. Or I'll do the old "anything but this this and this." If the other party can't think of anything I'll offer up suggestions if it's really an issue. As for "I'm fine" I can see that being a problem only if the situation's like this.
Girl *pissed*
Guy: Are you ok?
Girl *you know what you did*: I'm fine
That's not good, etc.
Girl *pissed*
Guy: Are you ok?
Girl *you know what you did*: I'm fine
That's not good, etc.
That wasn't the situation, of course, it was still the first few dates, and nothing major had really happened yet. In this case, she pretty much had no opinion over anything.
Fenrir.Niniann said:
First off I'm going to start by saying people don't just eat because we're hungry. We eat because food tastes good. See: Deserts. An easy explanation for her doing what she did was because your food simply looked good. Once you taste something typically you keep at it hungry or not. This is why I eat cupcakes or various other things I shouldn't.
Scenario two of this situation goes as follows. Many girls are on diets. Mall food isn't exactly diet friendly--at least not the majority of the malls I've been to. There's been a couple malls in like the rich part of town where trophy wives preside that have health food but this isn't a majority. Anyway, she might have been trying to stay on her diet by being a good girl and not eating ***food and your asking her if she was hungry was NOT helping matters. If she's hungry and is able to eat, she's a grown woman, she'll *** tell you. If I'm on a strict diet, and someone keeps trying to offer me ***food I'm going to be *** pissed to be quite frank. This is where you eating in front of her didn't help matters. She's hungry. There's food in front of her. She's going to eat it. Been there done that.
If she's not on a diet her reason for eating your food is because it looked/was tasty though, fyi.
Scenario two of this situation goes as follows. Many girls are on diets. Mall food isn't exactly diet friendly--at least not the majority of the malls I've been to. There's been a couple malls in like the rich part of town where trophy wives preside that have health food but this isn't a majority. Anyway, she might have been trying to stay on her diet by being a good girl and not eating ***food and your asking her if she was hungry was NOT helping matters. If she's hungry and is able to eat, she's a grown woman, she'll *** tell you. If I'm on a strict diet, and someone keeps trying to offer me ***food I'm going to be *** pissed to be quite frank. This is where you eating in front of her didn't help matters. She's hungry. There's food in front of her. She's going to eat it. Been there done that.
If she's not on a diet her reason for eating your food is because it looked/was tasty though, fyi.
Fenrir.Niniann said:
A lot of people are like this, it happens.
