Ramuh.Urial said:
That actually sounds more or less like the majority of women I know. But I would like to point out women who are more assertive in the bedroom are typically better sexually. So where I don't mind being the Alpha sometimes it's nice to have your partner be assertive as well.
Well of course, it's not a one way street! I know what I like and I have no problem saying so. No problem with taking the reigns either. However, it's a huge turn on if the guy is willing to take control without asking several questions and having to coach him through with step by step directions.
Take what you want without question (unless she says stop of course, lol) and most women will do the same.
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I don't wanna do all the work all the time :<
If you're doing all the work, there's a big chance she's not into it.