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Mattress Firm Refuses To Sell To Muslim Woman
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:01:29
Fairy.Spence said: Edited. Didn't think you'd reply so quickly, Vinvv. I usually don't but my boss is banging with some Easy E and I'm all in the groove today.
I am still curious about whatever mab was going on about...what do you think?
Asura.Dameshi said: Wombat said: Asura.Dameshi said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: even the Amish? I don't think they are going to be there. I could tell you stories... many stories. Do you work in construction in the Midwest? No, I live in the heart of Amish country. It's fun isn't it!?
I actually am still waiting for some crazy Amish stories.
I love those kind of stories.
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-19 16:09:49
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Fairy.Spence said: Edited. Didn't think you'd reply so quickly, Vinvv. I usually don't but my boss is banging with some Easy E and I'm all in the groove today.
I am still curious about whatever mab was going on about...what do you think?
Not a clue.
And yes, I'd like to hear stories of the Amish as well, Meshi.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:12:04
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: beating around the bush is a colloquial term referring to when someone doesn't really get to the point. I don't think a point is key word I'd put emphasis on with you. Those bushes should be pretty barren by now.
Actual assertion to be made here or am I just assuming that you actually have something to say to me?
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: beating around the bush is a colloquial term referring to when someone doesn't really get to the point. I don't think a point is key word I'd put emphasis on with you.
Fairy.Spence said: Mab, I think uBitter, bro. :/ Sticking up for my Mother, sisters, wife, etc is bitter?
Dude wake up and stop labeling me. Sounds bitter to me.
Sticking up for your people by...not saying much of anything and just prancing around what I say?
Doesn't sound valid to me.
I am pretty sure I didn't insult your people, but assuming things is quite fun, so that's why I wanted to hear what you actually had to say...but if you don't have anything to say then so be it.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:15:14
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: I don't care either way Vinvv. Obviously you do.
Lakshmi.Mabrook said:
Fairy.Spence said: Mab, I think uBitter, bro. :/ Sticking up for my Mother, sisters, wife, etc is bitter?
Dude wake up and stop labeling me. You label yourself good enough as it is.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:20:54
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: You label yourself good enough as it is. That's not me labeling, you have the thought twisted. Are you or are you not a Muslim?
If so, you are labeling yourself as a Muslim.
IE you are better at labeling yourself than others.
It's your own fault that you took my statement with a negative connotation.
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-19 16:22:45
Nah, to be honest, I think you just don't like Vinvv, Mab.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:23:58
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: You label yourself good enough as it is. That's not me labeling, you have the thought twisted. Are you or are you not a Muslim? So you're basically dodging your comments. Are you or are you not a Muslim?
Answer:
So you're basically dodging your comments.
wait whaaaa?
you just....did what..
and sure, for hells sake.
quote whatever I said in this thread that has your nipples in a twist.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:25:39
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Fairy.Spence said: Nah, to be honest, I think you just don't like Vinvv, Mab. Vinvv has nothing to do with my feelings or anything lol.
Or were you referring to his insults? What insults.
Start quoting away.
I'm ready for you actually to have something to say to me rather than all these leading statements you've provided so far.
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By Valefor.Slipispsycho 2011-04-19 16:26:59
Make love, not war.
I think Mabrook and Vinvv should get a room and make peace.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:27:13
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Start quoting away. You have the wrong person for the job, sorry 8( Oh so you can say I'm insulting, yet not cite where-ever I insulted?
Hell I'll cite myself for *** sake, I'm bored enough for it atm...might change in about 6 minutes though.
edit:
first post Ramuh.Vinvv said: Can't see your face or pick you out of a line-up, shouldn't be worn in a place of business technically.
I saw people mention the KKK earlier, do they really go to the stores in full Klansmen garb?
seems a bit silly if you ask me.
But many places don't get down to the technicalities.
but not serving someone because you can't see their eyeses, noseses, and mouthsess doesn't have to be on a religious basis, though it'll be purported to be that regardless if it is or not in this day and age.
muslims make cash when it comes to news.
But hell I'm getting a burka and i'm gonna rob a few stores brb.
one mans respect is anothers disrespect. second post in the thread.
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: one mans respect is anothers disrespect. Only a pessimist would say that. Only an optimist would say that!
I say a lot of things.
And i float around between many different states of mind being the balanced unbalanced individual that I am.
It could be taken as pessimistic but I dunno.
should i have just said different strokes for different folks again to please everyone?
or do i even need to please everyone, or am I allowed to be pessimistic? third
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Flavin said: Bimbam said: I didn't want to touch this thread but wasn't sure if anyone had mentioned this, I have not read the middle posts so am possibly reiterating what has already been mentioned. I have no complaint in women choosing to wear a burqa. However it is in no way mandatory & as such can often be misinterpreted as representing anti-west sentiments from either the wearer, or perhaps in some cases the person forcing her to wear it. There are many other items of religious clothing they could chose to wear that would not cause this issue such as the hijab. To my knowledge there is nothing stipulating hands/face should be covered anyway.There was an article about this on the BBC around the time the French were defining laws about it. This however is irrelevant to the point of refusing service to someone covering there face. When you remove all the religious hype about this topic, it is exactly the same fundamentally as walking into a shop wearing a balaclava, full face motorcycle helmet or even a 'hoody'. Whether you agree with it or not, this poses security problems. Most noticeable being the inability to identify said customer on CCTV cameras in the event of a robbery. I for one have worked in a convenience store where it is mandatory to ask the customer to remove any face coverings (admittedly where I live this is almost only bike helmets) for the sake of security, and not to open the cash register if they refuse. The Halifax next door was robbed by exactly this method (motor cycle helmet). Now in no way am I a saying a Muslim woman is more or less likely to commit a crime due to there religious beliefs, to make such a statement would be somewhat ignorant and unfounded (unless someone can point me in the direction of the crime figures lol). But the refusal to serve somebody covering their face seems an entirely logical and in no way religiously charged countermeasure to preventing "over the counter" thefts. While Muslims do not drink, I have met a few who smoke, so what if a woman in a burqa were to ask for cigarettes? how would you ID them? They should be treated entirely equal to everyone else, this means showing identifiable features when shopping like everyone else. Whatever country I chose to visit or move to, I will respect the laws of the country regardless of any beliefs I may personally adhere to (I don't). Logic and reasoning should always supersede religion as far as law is concerned. This... I completely agree with this as well.
Pretty much what I was getting at but worded in a much better manner lol.
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: one mans respect is anothers disrespect. Only a pessimist would say that. Only an optimist would say that!
I say a lot of things.
And i float around between many different states of mind being the balanced unbalanced individual that I am.
It could be taken as pessimistic but I dunno.
should i have just said different strokes for different folks again to please everyone?
or do i even need to please everyone, or am I allowed to be pessimistic? Too many assumptions, take your steps one at a time would be the easiest route if you're having trouble understanding what to think.
I can't tell you what to think as that is not my place to be, but good is supposedly overrated from what I understand. I said I didn't understand what I think?
I'm confused.
I've always interpreted the human psyche as a collective of personas, some which of whom come out more often than others.
meaning that 1 day I could be pessemistic as all get out and then other other hand the next day I could be optimistic as all get out.
Does that mean I disagree with my pessimistic view points when I'm in an optimistic view-point.
Not necessarily.
I might just be pessimistic in regards to what I was speaking about, but then again I might not.
But that's not really something you should need to worry about.
so essentially what i'm trying to say in regards to your "that's pessimistic" comment is this:
so what?
do you want a Pulitzer for literary analysis?
Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Make love, not war.
I think Mabrook and Vinvv should get a room and make peace. I find verbal discourse to be the most appropriate solution to solve grievances.
Is it the third one Mabbie?
double-edit:
read through my third post again, and don't find a lick of insults in that, nor did I find any in the others.
and from first post on Mabrook has pushed his whole open ended leading statements deal, so I don't really see a difference between his behavior then and then now in regards to whatever "insults" he feels exists.
okay back to quoting myself just because it's fun.
4th post
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Muslim women wear the hijab by choice and continue to remain consistent from their own choices in life and any further is an assumption.
I challenge anyone to find a Muslim women still wearing a hijab that requires your help and/or willing to take her hijab off because you feel it is necessarily required for your comfort, but this is beyond what I am trying understand myself. Lakshmi.Flavin said: Bimbam said: I didn't want to touch this thread but wasn't sure if anyone had mentioned this, I have not read the middle posts so am possibly reiterating what has already been mentioned. I have no complaint in women choosing to wear a burqa. However it is in no way mandatory & as such can often be misinterpreted as representing anti-west sentiments from either the wearer, or perhaps in some cases the person forcing her to wear it. There are many other items of religious clothing they could chose to wear that would not cause this issue such as the hijab. To my knowledge there is nothing stipulating hands/face should be covered anyway.There was an article about this on the BBC around the time the French were defining laws about it. This however is irrelevant to the point of refusing service to someone covering there face. When you remove all the religious hype about this topic, it is exactly the same fundamentally as walking into a shop wearing a balaclava, full face motorcycle helmet or even a 'hoody'. Whether you agree with it or not, this poses security problems. Most noticeable being the inability to identify said customer on CCTV cameras in the event of a robbery. I for one have worked in a convenience store where it is mandatory to ask the customer to remove any face coverings (admittedly where I live this is almost only bike helmets) for the sake of security, and not to open the cash register if they refuse. The Halifax next door was robbed by exactly this method (motor cycle helmet). Now in no way am I a saying a Muslim woman is more or less likely to commit a crime due to there religious beliefs, to make such a statement would be somewhat ignorant and unfounded (unless someone can point me in the direction of the crime figures lol). But the refusal to serve somebody covering their face seems an entirely logical and in no way religiously charged countermeasure to preventing "over the counter" thefts. While Muslims do not drink, I have met a few who smoke, so what if a woman in a burqa were to ask for cigarettes? how would you ID them? They should be treated entirely equal to everyone else, this means showing identifiable features when shopping like everyone else. Whatever country I chose to visit or move to, I will respect the laws of the country regardless of any beliefs I may personally adhere to (I don't). Logic and reasoning should always supersede religion as far as law is concerned. This... redundancies sake.
5th post
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Too many voices of reason, but wait... you're not reasoning; are you? What?
6th
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Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Mabrook said: I would rather be assumed a fool then to actually be a fool. What?
elaborate in a way that i may understand?
a fool is only a fool if they don't know what they are doing is foolish.
this is one of those rule-of-thumbs though so don't treat it like scripture.
being self-aware as well as aware of others is key.
but that's another rule of thumb. [/spoiler]
7th mab relevant post
[spoiler] Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Mabrook said: I like going to the park with my family and seeing every creed of persons there full of life while interacting with each other. even the Amish? I don't think they are going to be there. [/spoiler]
All in all an argument like this with Mabrook is like an episode of lost. You feel like it's good enough to get to the point some time soon, but every time the people are like ohohoho! I'm not saying anything!
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-19 16:29:30
Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Make love, not war.
I think Mabrook and Vinvv should get a room and make peace.
War is peace!
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:43:13
Fairy.Spence said: Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Make love, not war.
I think Mabrook and Vinvv should get a room and make peace.
War is peace! War until there is only a piece!
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:49:47
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: I was never much of a debater and I'm sure people see that as weak, but I call it greedy for knowledge; some might interpret that as bitter too, so words mean nothing lol. See even this I can't really rap around how exactly you puts the whole beating around the bush deal together with the "bitter" side of things.
It doesn't make sense to me.
I never perceived you as bitter until you replied to a comment about you being bitter and "defending your family", which is nothing of what you did with me.
I'm just trying to understand you, where you are coming from(in regards to the replies and comments towards me, i honestly am not talking about a faith thing with this), and you call me greedy for it.
That's essentially it.
That's why I kept on asking you why when you said things to me.
I stopped trying to say anything else towards you because you would just hinge off of something else I said and we would never really get anywhere.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 16:59:03
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: I'm just trying to understand you, and you call me greedy for it. You assist in disrespecting a creed of individuals then label it out as trying to understand me and me calling you greedy for it? lol. where is this "disrespect"?
point it out.
I quoted it for you in a previous post on this page.
or did you get offended by my "one mans respect is another mans disrespect" deal.
how is that even disrespectful if that is the case?
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 17:01:36
Asura.Bartimaeus said: So now you guys are fighting about you guys fighting.
Cool. Yeah. I think I need to work this out with Mabbie, you guys can peanut gallery it all you want but this is something that bothers me, and I'd rather talk it out with the guy.
Sure we could take it to PM, but from my experience, when it gets taken that way...the talks just stop half the time lol.
For some reason people are clung to defend their honor in the public arena though.
Which means you can keep a conversation going like this.
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-19 17:03:21
Asura.Bartimaeus said: So now you guys are fighting about you guys fighting.
Cool.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 17:04:06
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: where is this "disrespect"?
point it out. The part you missed. Well, that should be the part you need to quote if you want to *** at me about it.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-19 17:06:32
Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Lakshmi.Mabrook said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: where is this "disrespect"?
point it out. The part you missed. Well, that should be the part you need to quote if you want to *** at me about it. I don't want to *** at you silly. I just hate that dialogues between us are like wholly and incomplete just because you don't feel like committing to what you say.
And of course, you don't want to *** at me.
I still would want to know what I said that you felt was "disrespectful".
This kind of stuff isn't so I can ream you and say that you are wrong and I am right.
I like to know when I am wrong when I am(that is assuming that my statement was taken in the right way), man.
So you can continue to call me greedy without citations behind it...but I just find it a bit exhausting lol.
Read the article here.
Quote: She said the store manager approached, but oddly didn't want to help. He told the family that he wouldn't sell them a mattress for security reasons, she said.
Yes, because a woman wearing an obvious Islamic veil accompanied by her family is just as suspicious as a man walking in with a ski mask and an AK-47, and don't forget, Muslim woman are notorious for turning mattresses into bombs... *Facepalm*
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