Odin.Liela said: »
:/ It's ok Dabackpack. College only started up a couple weeks ago, right? So you have all semester to meet new people and make new friends. As for your girlfriend, trust her. What's a relationship without trust?
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Odin.Liela said: » :/ It's ok Dabackpack. College only started up a couple weeks ago, right? So you have all semester to meet new people and make new friends. As for your girlfriend, trust her. What's a relationship without trust? Cerberus.Valmur said: » Sigh yup, stubbed my toe and blood everywhere -_- Leviathan.Novax said: » Long distance never works Leviathan.Novax said: » Long distance never works Leviathan.Novax said: » Long distance never works Leviathan.Novax said: » Long distance never works Leviathan.Novax said: » Long distance never works I just wanted to quote this too. Long distance all boils down to the people involved.
Edit: Or you could just be bitter based of your own experience. :3 /runs and hides You guys are silly. It can work if the people involved really want it to. It just takes a little more work than normal.
Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha said: » You guys are silly. It can work if the people involved really want it to. It just takes a little more work than normal. Offline
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It works up til the point one of the people finds someone as compatible/interesting/etc that happens to be close enough to be able to touch.
Well that's assuming both really liked each other to begin with, otherwise it's subject to all the problems of a traditional relationship such as just getting tired of each other. Think about it, say for all practical purposes there's two people that are almost identical, one lives 10 mins away and another lives on the other side of the world, would it really surprise you to get dumped for the person that lives 10 mins away? Any relationship anywhere can work. It just boils down to how much work are you willing to put into it. If both parties communicate and actually let the other person know how they feel, it's going to work. The problem with most people these days is that they're lazy when it comes to forging relationships. It isn't always going to be sunshine and rainbows. There will be rocky roads, there will be fights. When you were a kid, you fought with your parents or siblings. Did that mean you didn't love them anymore? No. The same works with intimate relationships. Realize that you aren't going to get a long 100% of the time, accept it, embrace it. Acknowledge that you are separate people who have their own interests. If we were all with people who were exactly like ourselves, we'd all be better off beating our own meat and the human race would die.
Ah thanks everyone.
Hopefully I'll have time to meet people, I just have picked like some of the worst classes ever and am always working/studying now :( Just feel a little behind, people already have groups/cliques and it'll be a bit harder to find people I can hang out with. I try not to worry about the gf thing, and it's not really a matter of her cheating on me or anything, I just worry that she'll meet someone better and more accessible, and I have no way of influencing that. Furthermore, her parents have moved to another state, so visiting inbetween semesters is going to be tricky, if at all possible. I'm sure it'll just take some time. 1) trust is a huge deal for more people than not.
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Raborn said: » Am I getting fat? If you have to ask, you've been fat for a while. Phoenix.Dabackpack said: » Ah thanks everyone. Hopefully I'll have time to meet people, I just have picked like some of the worst classes ever and am always working/studying now :( Just feel a little behind, people already have groups/cliques and it'll be a bit harder to find people I can hang out with. I try not to worry about the gf thing, and it's not really a matter of her cheating on me or anything, I just worry that she'll meet someone better and more accessible, and I have no way of influencing that. Furthermore, her parents have moved to another state, so visiting inbetween semesters is going to be tricky, if at all possible. I'm sure it'll just take some time. Just keep in mind that people generally gravitate to those who have similar personalities and interests. It's just human nature. You'll find your group. :) Leviathan.Novax said: » Long distance never works Raborn said: » Am I getting fat? Offline
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Phoenix.Dabackpack said: » I feel so lonely here at college ; ; I'm totally swamped with homework (I guess I'm working myself too hard) and there's a social event tonight (open to everyone), and nobody cares that I can't come. This guy came into the room, with a group of people on my floor, asked my roommate if he wanted to go with me right there, and they all left. My girlfriend is halfway across the country at another college, and there's the constant fear that she'll leave me for someone over there. There are people I can -talk- to, but I don't think I would consider them "friends". Not in a good place right now >_< Sorry, just needed to get that off my chest. Carry on with previous discussion. Life moves in cycles, don't get too attached to anything. It's part of growing up. Friends are going to come and go in and out of your life from here on out. Just enjoy yourself and meet new people, hang out around some people you don't think are like you, you learn a lot about others and yourself that way. Don't be ashamed of yourself or ashamed to be seen with others. In the pursuit of knowledge and happiness there is no wrong in innocence. Studying alone is great but I've found that if I study with different people who see things different from the way I do, I actually learned a lot more. Balancing everything is the key. If it makes you feel any better my first year of college was the same way, only I didn't have any friends and I mostly kept to myself, it made me miserable, and I lost an entire year of probably something that could have been far more beneficial to everyone if I had just gotten out and met people and learned new things (outside of schoolwork). Offline
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Long distance knowing each other or being with each other =
Are you moving or me? But my family is here, why don't you move? I have a good job, can't you move? I want to sex you up and down. Long distance meeting online or something = Are you moving or me? Are you a serial killer? My family will miss me too much, can't you move? Are you a serial killer? I know quite a few happily married couples who started out as long distance relationships. All of these negatives could happen even if the person lived down the street from you. If you're going to stray away from your partner, you were probably going to do it regardless of distance.
I do agree that some people can't deal with it. But keep in mind, most people don't get into LD relationships thinking the relationship will stay that way forever. The idea is to eventually reduce the distance. |
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