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Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
Jetackuu said: » If one isn't happy with themselves they will never be happy with another. This is the key to pretty much every happy long term relationship I've ever seen or been a part of; both people were complete people beforehand. If you need your partner to fill some gap, that changes the dynamic from partnership to... I don't have a good word, so I'm going to go with "emotional vendor". You want a partnership. Make yourself whole first, and everything else flows from there.
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Bismarck.Josiahfk said: » Ackeron said: » As a person flying solo for 26 years closing in on 27 I can admit that the road to becoming a wizard is horrible and miserable. Which is why I can't wait to learn some sort of fire spell in 3 years and 3 months. Bismarck.Josiahfk said: » Ackeron said: » As a person flying solo for 26 years closing in on 27 I can admit that the road to becoming a wizard is horrible and miserable. Which is why I can't wait to learn some sort of fire spell in 3 years and 3 months.
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I know a friend who just got his first girlfriend at the age of 27. He's struggled with stuttering and mental lapses while trying to finish his sentences his whole life. Others have it worse, sure, but he didn't give up. He got his life together and put himself out there, you just have to believe in yourself. It sounds corny, but you do.
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Asura.Floppyseconds said: » Never thought I needed a partner or anyone to be honest. That sorta came up and slapped in in the face one day. Anyway, can I request my own topic ban from RT, Rooks? I'm no psychologist, but my perspective is that while women are okay being needed by kids/family, they would much rather be wanted by their partner. Chick flicks like to glorify men who "couldn't live without" the women they're chasing, but in reality it seems that women prefer men who are whole by themselves and not desperately trying to fill an empty spot in their life.
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Don't pursue desperately cause it won't work, but also don't close yourself off from opportunities.
Bahamut.Ravael said: » I'm no psychologist, but my perspective is that while women are okay being needed by kids/family, they would much rather be wanted by their partner. Chick flicks like to glorify men who "couldn't live without" the women they're chasing, but in reality it seems that women prefer men who are whole by themselves and not desperately trying to fill an empty spot in their life. I haven't met a woman yet who likes a needy man. They really hate that ***. (Not trying to stereotype, literally anecdotal here). Asura.Floppyseconds said: » Never thought I needed a partner or anyone to be honest. That sorta came up and slapped in in the face one day. Anyway, can I request my own topic ban from RT, Rooks? If you really want one, send me/Ack/Chaos a PM in a few hours. Asura.Floppyseconds said: » Anyway, can I request my own topic ban from RT, Rooks? Rooks said: » Asura.Floppyseconds said: » Way to go Rooks, see what you started?! Just couldn't stay on the topic of Backyardigans could you? Your overly public whining infuriates me. You lost a girl, big *** deal. Most relationships end. Stop moping about it, move on, and grow from it. That's part of growing up - taking the losses, learning, growing. Holing up in a shell like Emo McTortoise is a childish move, and one a full grown adult should be well past. Or, wallow forever. I don't care. Just shut up about it if you aren't going to try and fix your problems. Josiahkf said: » Asura.Floppyseconds said: » Way to go Rooks, see what you started?! Just couldn't stay on the topic of Backyardigans could you? Yeah, but I have in no intention of being nice about it  Every girl I've thought of giving up my chance to be a wizard for ended up not working out.
They had horrible taste in men. Some turned lesbian after how horrible the guy was.
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 Meh, women suck. End of story.
#forever
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Asura.Floppyseconds said: » Kalila said: » Asura.Floppyseconds said: » Anyway, can I request my own topic ban from RT, Rooks? It be for the best. If it was voluntary I could always come back :P I am fully capable of not needing it obviously. It is not like I can't control what I post. It is just easier that way mentally. Why exactly a few hours? Actually nvm I don't care why. Lol, just whenever you get to it. It is an official request. Uh, no. Topic bans last until removed. I'm not really in the business of removing them, even for voluntary ones, because then it turns into me/the mods acting as crossing guards for people who can't control impulses (moreso than we already do). You want a topic ban, it sticks. A "few hours" for the same reason I had Aelius/Terra wait a couple days before dropping them to VIP; to think about it and make sure it's what you want, and not some hasty decision made in the heat of the moment.
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It's the whole alpha vs beta discussion. A woman wants a man who is something of his own, otherwise the friendzone always has a lot of space for cattle.
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