Typically if they judge you on your looks while knowing that you are a generally awesome person they aren't worth talking to anyway.
my two gil on that subject.
my quest as a manslut was to prove the "be a *** to a girl and they will love you" idea.
and in all honesty if you have the looks card, you can pull this off pretty flawlessly.
but then on the flipside you have to take into account your own personal preferences, if you date a shallow *** who only likes ya for yer looks you gotta be a *** or they will eat you alive.
Atleast that's how it works IMO.
now if you get a beautiful girl inside and out yer set.
i made this subject more on the terms of teh females, but that's the only sex that can have opinion without being "teh gay" or some stupid ***like that lol
in response to das'z post: my solution to that is talk about something that would be interesting to the female persuasion loud enough for them to hear, that can work.
but it really depends on your angle.