|
|
Sexuality - men and women
サーバ: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6173
By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-09-15 22:49:32
Is it wrong for a guy to hit on a girl, or a girl to hit on a man? This includes in game also!
Where is the line drawn, do girls like guys to make the first move or them?
[+]
サーバ: Odin
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6558
By Odin.Zicdeh 2010-09-15 22:52:13
Women like everything done for them, topic over.
Bismarck.Rinomaru
サーバ: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 2057
By Bismarck.Rinomaru 2010-09-15 22:52:53
Flirting with girls is just... natural. though when a girl hits on me i'm like wtf is going on.... /smile
[+]
Leviathan.Hastefeet
サーバ: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 1298
By Leviathan.Hastefeet 2010-09-15 22:53:22
Chloroform is the best pick up line ever
edit i cant spell <.<
サーバ: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6173
By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-09-15 22:53:37
Odin.Zicdeh said: Women like everything done for them, topic over.
That is what you think, some do not then it causes a problem, some women can be complex. Think outside the box this is the reason women look at us like typical douchbags ; ;.
サーバ: Sylph
Game: FFXI
Posts: 389
By Sylph.Maruraba 2010-09-15 22:54:01
Bahamut.Stanflame said: Is it wrong for a guy to hit on a girl, No.
Bahamut.Stanflame said: or a girl to hit on a man? Very no. :)
Bahamut.Stanflame said: Where is the line drawn, do girls like guys to make the first move or them? Different strokes for different folks. Pun possibly intended.
/thread
[+]
サーバ: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6173
By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-09-15 22:55:16
Sylph.Maruraba said: Bahamut.Stanflame said: Is it wrong for a guy to hit on a girl, No.
Bahamut.Stanflame said: or a girl to hit on a man? Very no. :)
Bahamut.Stanflame said: Where is the line drawn, do girls like guys to make the first move or them? Different strokes for different folks. Pun possibly intended.
/thread
Why can we not have a long drawn out conversation men, is it because I created this topic?
サーバ: Odin
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6558
By Odin.Zicdeh 2010-09-15 22:56:20
Bahamut.Stanflame said: Odin.Zicdeh said: Women like everything done for them, topic over.
That is what you think, some do not then it causes a problem, some women can be complex. Think outside the box this is the reason women look at us like typical douchbags ; ;.
If women actually did anything, I'd have a *** sandwich by now. But the treacherous harpy is watching Real Housewives or some ***.
Leviathan.Hastefeet
サーバ: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 1298
By Leviathan.Hastefeet 2010-09-15 22:56:39
why would it be wrong either way, isn't it pretty much natural to do that?
サーバ: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6173
By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-09-15 22:57:48
Leviathan.Hastefeet said: why would it be wrong either way, isn't it pretty much natural to do that?
Some people get upset when a "specific" person hits on girls, no everyone is the same!
Leviathan.Hastefeet
サーバ: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 1298
By Leviathan.Hastefeet 2010-09-15 22:59:39
Bahamut.Stanflame said: Leviathan.Hastefeet said: why would it be wrong either way, isn't it pretty much natural to do that?
Some people get upset when a "specific" person hits on girls, no everyone is the same!
like when a girl turns you down? i dont get what you're trying to say
a specific group of people or a person?
Bahamut.Seanna
サーバ: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 376
By Bahamut.Seanna 2010-09-15 22:59:42
I guess it's the way we're appoarched and the type of people we're attracted to. If it's from a guy I totally dig or find attractive(according to what I think is handsome) then I'd go along with it but if it's from a person who appears too smug, like he could get any woman to fall at sight of him, or gets off as too strong, then no...
Fenrir.Barodus
サーバ: Fenrir
Game: FFXI
Posts: 55
By Fenrir.Barodus 2010-09-15 23:00:19
[+]
Leviathan.Hastefeet
サーバ: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 1298
By Leviathan.Hastefeet 2010-09-15 23:02:23
Bahamut.Seanna said: I guess it's the way we're appoarched and the type of people we're attracted to. If it's from a guy I totally dig or find attractive(according to what I think is handsome) then I'd go along with it but if it's from a person who appears too smug, like he could get any woman to fall at sight of him, or gets off as too strong, then no...
so if the guy is a douchebag he stands no chance?
サーバ: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6173
By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-09-15 23:02:31
Bahamut.Seanna said: I guess it's the way we're appoarched and the type of people we're attracted to. If it's from a guy I totally dig or find attractive(according to what I think is handsome) then I'd go along with it but if it's from a person who appears too smug, like he could get any woman to fall at sight of him, or gets off as too strong, then no...
I sort of have the aura around certain women but ignore them, would you still say no to me?
:P
サーバ: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 36553
By Asura.Ludoggy 2010-09-15 23:02:45
Theres flirting then theres being desperate and annoying.
サーバ: Fenrir
Game: FFXI
Posts: 162
By Fenrir.Empedocles 2010-09-15 23:03:35
Well isn't the whole flirting thing a method of subtle (or not) suggestions that one person is interested romantically in another?
If that is the case, then it shouldn't matter what gender they are, sender or recipient.
I think most women expect the man to make the first move, primarily because that's just the way it seems to be always done... but hopefully women in general will become confident enough to go after a guy they might want (so long as he's not already attached :P )
サーバ: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6173
By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-09-15 23:03:49
Asura.Ludoggy said: Theres flirting then theres being desperate and annoying.
Oh thank god no /thread!!!!
Lakshmi.Jaerik
Administrator
サーバ: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 3834
By Lakshmi.Jaerik 2010-09-15 23:04:04
So incredibly dependent on cultural expectations and individual preference it's impossible to say.
I've had successful relationships where I made the first move, and successful relationships where they have. It's no big deal either way.
[+]
Leviathan.Hastefeet
サーバ: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 1298
By Leviathan.Hastefeet 2010-09-15 23:04:05
what if i were to club a girl over the head?
is that wrong???
[+]
By Flionheart 2010-09-15 23:04:07
Asura.Ludoggy said: Theres flirting then theres being desperate and annoying. +1
サーバ: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6173
By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-09-15 23:05:37
Flionheart said: Asura.Ludoggy said: Theres flirting then theres being desperate and annoying. +1
Yes desperate is bad...:(.
サーバ: Odin
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6558
By Odin.Zicdeh 2010-09-15 23:09:36
Bahamut.Stanflame said: Flionheart said: Asura.Ludoggy said: Theres flirting then theres being desperate and annoying. +1
Yes desperate is bad...:(.
It depends on if we're talking about a relationship, or just getting your *** moistened. I mean, seriously, when is a man not desperate for sex? It could have been 12 minutes ago and I'd be pleading for moar. Youthful virility, it is sometimes a burden.
[+]
By Flionheart 2010-09-15 23:10:46
Odin.Zicdeh said: Bahamut.Stanflame said: Flionheart said: Asura.Ludoggy said: Theres flirting then theres being desperate and annoying. +1
Yes desperate is bad...:(.
It depends on if we're talking about a relationship, or just getting your *** moistened. I mean, seriously, when is a man not desperate for sex? It could have been 12 minutes ago and I'd be pleading for moar. Youthful virility, it is sometimes a burden.
I should say... Pointless desperation is bad.
When there is no way someone has a chance yet they're still creepy and ***.
サーバ: Sylph
Game: FFXI
Posts: 15066
By Sylph.Tigerwoods 2010-09-15 23:11:33
If you're interested, male or female, go for it. If not, and you want to sit around and wait, gl for them to approach you, but if not, be prepared for the chance to pass you by completely.
[+]
Ramuh.Dasva
サーバ: Ramuh
Game: FFXI
Posts: 40469
By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-09-15 23:14:11
Odin.Zicdeh said: Women like everything done for them, topic over.
[+]
サーバ: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 32
By Asura.Angelswrath 2010-09-15 23:15:04
Odin.Zicdeh said: Bahamut.Stanflame said: Odin.Zicdeh said: Women like everything done for them, topic over. That is what you think, some do not then it causes a problem, some women can be complex. Think outside the box this is the reason women look at us like typical douchbags ; ;. If women actually did anything, I'd have a *** sandwich by now. But the treacherous harpy is watching Real Housewives or some ***.
I lol'd XD
[+]
サーバ: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 1085
By Asura.Israfel 2010-09-15 23:22:37
I don't think it's wrong for either sex to hit on eachother,
It's flattering when a guy hits on me... but if I make the first move it's more exciting.
I don't like it when arrogant guys hit on me and when they get shot down they get emo and are all "Well you weren't cute anyway! /pout" lol ~_~
Asura.Ludoggy said: Theres flirting then theres being desperate and annoying. 2nd, 3rd and 4th this!
サーバ: Odin
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6558
By Odin.Zicdeh 2010-09-15 23:27:08
Asura.Israfel said: I don't think it's wrong for either sex to hit on eachother,
It's flattering when a guy hits on me... but if I make the first move it's more exciting.
I don't like it when arrogant guys hit on me and when they get shot down they get emo and are all "Well you weren't cute anyway! /pout" lol ~_~
They're idiots, because graceful rejection can get you caught on the rebound.
Though the relationship didn't go anywhere, I got a date right after rejection a few years ago because my parting words afterward were;
So be it...Jedi.
I wish the story had a happier ending, because you don't find many girls responsive to nerd-culture, at least around here, but it's still a fun story.
サーバ: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 1085
By Asura.Israfel 2010-09-15 23:29:03
haha XD that's awesome!!!
Is it wrong for a guy to hit on a girl, or a girl to hit on a man? This includes in game also!
Where is the line drawn, do girls like guys to make the first move or them?
|
|