Need Assistance Concerning Jewish Tradition Regard

I need some information regarding Jewish customs relating to the passing of a family member.

My colleague's mother passed away and I received a letter of invitation to her funeral. I will be attending the funeral however he mentions something in the letter which will take place at his home known as "Shiva" and listed a few hours everyday next week.

I need some help as to if there's anything I should keep in mind while attending Shiva. Am I allowed to bring items for him and are there certain things I should be aware of before I go? I would like to visit everyday if I can however I would also like to know if this is necessary or intrusive?

Thanks.

Visiting a shiva home (shiva call) -- Nichum Aveilim
It is considered a great mitzvah (literally "commandment" but usually interpreted as "good deed") of kindness and compassion to pay a home visit (make or pay a shiva call) to the mourners. Traditionally, no greetings are exchanged and visitors wait for the mourners to initiate conversation, or remain silent if the mourners do not do so, out of respect for their bereavement. Often, visitors will recite the traditional words of consolation, Ha-Makom y'nachem et'khem b'tokh sh'ar avelei Tziyon viyrushalayim ("May the Omnipresent comfort you among the other mourners of Zion and Jerusalem"). Once engaged in conversation by the mourners, it is appropriate for visitors to talk about the deceased, sharing stories of his or her life. Some mourners use the shiva as a distraction from their loss, other mourners prefer to openly experience their grief together with friends and family.

It is considered a mitzvah for visitors to bring prepared food for the mourners. The mourner is not expected or obligated to serve food to the visitors, who may eat only if offered food by the mourner.


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Sounds like what a wake(sp?) is for non-jewish peoples.

Bring your Tuning Fork of Ice.

I knew it wouldn't take long for someone to make a joke of this. =D I love forums =DDDD

He got his answer, I waited at least. XD