Honesty and integrity may certainly not be of utmost importance with all players of FFXI, but it is high on the list with me.
In my opinion, Fiercekitten is a cheater. Her husband levels her character because, "She doesn't have a lot of time to do it herself."
I have no respect for her. Not only for the lack of legitimacy of her levels, however. She has not properly built skills or done her due diligence of the jobs.
I believe anyone who has taken their character on their own to level 80 would agree. I earned every experience point on my own.
I would not want to party with even a level 85, if they were not the one to learn that job and give it experience points.
I remain anonymous, as she strikes me to be a somewhat vindictive person.