Youtube Embedding

So this obviously wont be a problem for most people, but in my house way out the back end of nowhere we get a pretty shitty internet speed =/ So if I want to watch something on youtube, I have to stick it allll the way down to 240p. Thing is all the embedded vids will only let you go down to 360p. Have to click on the vid to bring it up on youtube on a new page to set it down to 240p.

Just wondering if there is anyway you could add that option to it? Or is that just the way the youtube embedder thingy is? If not is there any way you could buy me a house closer to an exchange? Or maybe just build an exchange next to my house whichever is easiest, thanks XD